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Systems Of Divination – To understand Self

Astrology

astrology readings

The moment of our birth contains the seed of who we are. All the celestial bodies of that time imprint upon the energetic, quantum blueprint of the person’s life.

Astrology is a self-discovery tool.  A lot of astrology is other-centered, people love to look at other people are responding to the planets and how compatible they are with their ideal mate. Yet many people use astrology as a self-discovery tool. I work with astrology in such a way that I allow it to cross-pollinate with other branches of ancient and modern spirituality. On top of that, the principles of depth psychology, namely Jungian influenced psychotherapy, are fundamental to my understanding of how the planets impact a person’s life.

So how can we use work with it? And why do we use it? In order to use a tool safely, ethically and effectively, it’s necessary to understand how it works. Sometimes this isn’t always possible with astrology as it takes many years to really integrate the deep knowledge. That’s why it’s useful to get a reading, then you really get the real deal. Astrology has a huge potential as a tool to approach life in a more holistic way, to align with the rhythms and cycles of life, how levels of awareness and disconnection continually reveal themselves to us. It can benefit us hugely to follow the planets and their impact on our chart.

Human Design
Tarot
The Earth Path System

Soul Plan Readings

At the moment you were born and in your original birth name your limitless potential was coded. Only through knowing our blueprint can we unlock our fullest potential.

Knowledge is power. Knowledge with understanding helps explain why we magentise certain experiences and show us how to resolve blocks.

The Earth Path will decode your Soul Purpose, renew a sense of purpose, bring clarity and perhaps even illuminate a completely new direction. It gives us self-understanding, and helps us meet the world around us eye to eye.

With the world as overly complicated and crazy as it is, the Earth Path is one of the few tools capable of embracing both problem and solution. This is an incredible gift for us.

The Earth Path decodes the lessons, talents, goals and soul purpose of this lifetime. Knowledge of the life lessons we have agreed at a soul level for this life is a very liberating experience.  Knowing your Soul Blueprint – the energetic dynamics and life themes we have chosen to work with – can quickly accelerate you living out your Divine purpose.

I Ching

The 64 Hexagrams, gates of gene keys, depending on which system you learn them through are spectrums of consciousness. They are a path of evolution, and each individual aspect acts as a fractal aspect of the original universal pattern of life.

Each Gene Key has an infinite potential concealed within it, they are codes for all human consciousness and can be expressed at either a low or high frequency.

How we live our lives and purify our patterns determines the access to each spectrum of consciousness. You can transform the shadow and lower patterns through life experience and Divine purification, as well working as on your polarisations, and where you give away your power and accountability in blame, judgment and victim consciousness. The low frequencies hold fear and manifest as victim patterns.

At a higher frequency, you begin to activate the gifts within and finally transform the patterns into creative expressions of essence. At the very highest frequencies, they are expressions of high awareness and awakening, as a siddhi, the highest aspect of our consciousness.

As we work with the I Ching energies, we work through a deep process of transformation, coming to love, value and accept our expression and path, no matter what it brings. The secret is to know that we are always on the spectrum, we are a being in flux, never entirely stuck in a state of low consciousness, no matter how it appears. We can instantly transform your shadows, into essence, and my work is a training in how to do that.

Shamanic Tools

Shamanic Journeying

Shamanic journeying is a tool that allows us to journey into other levels and dimensions of our soul’s existence to heal, release and locate aspects of our soul. The journeying happens through semi-trance or altered states of consciousness where we can access a different type of awareness. We let go of our everyday, normalised reality of existence, where we see things through often quite mundane eyes, and step into a world where we understand our infinite existence through time and space. Everyone can journey in this way, we do it in our dreaming time afterall. Some find it easier and naturally access themselves in this way, others struggle to let go of the conscious thinking, cognitive mind that inhibits the awareness of ourselves as more than someone who can think. Journeying doesn’t require drums or rattles, although it can certainly be very deep and effective with these extra tools. Since we journey all the time, we are just not aware of it, when we daydream we are in a semi-altered state. Invoking Divine consciousness creates the best conditions for journeying, allowing us to let go of our everyday self and slip into our multidimensional, vast existence across all lifetimes and timeframes.

Past Life Clearing

Unbeknownst to many people, our past lives live very fully within us today as multidimensional aspects of us. They play out as parts of our personality, and sometimes have very strong roles in our lives. As you can imagine, life in the years gone by, was tough. We have many lives that are unresolved and still carry wounding. Many of the lifetimes gone by have been very traumatic, and traumatic deaths continue to be carried through – their trauma registers on the body in sometimes very physical ways.

This wounding bleeds through as fears, limiting belief systems, phobias or life themes. These lives are are often responsible for the individuals we found relationships with – whether they be intimate or working relationships. We are essentially, through these relationships, trying to complete unfinished karmic contracts (i.e. I will help you heal this if you help me heal that). Past lives can come up for healing during certain astrological transits, progressions or while we are in certain relationships. They manifest as powerful emotions or fears – such as a fear of betrayal or loss.

Soul Retrieval

With soul retrieval work big, life-changing traumas result to large parts of the soul splitting off. That part of the soul represents perhaps the person’s inner child, vulnerability or the part that takes risks, feels safe etc. It can be absolutely any part. At a higher level, it might be a useful process for this part to be separated from the rest of the consciousness. It might allow access to a higher vibration, or allow the soul to fulfill a contract or experience it needed for growth. It is not always a simple process of bringing back these parts. Sometimes a lot of ground work needs to be done first. And sometimes the soul part has a better idea in mind. Either way, if you have encountered trauma in this or any other life, or your ancestors have also experienced severe trauma, then this work is essential for your full healing.

External & Internal Interference Issues
Spirit Release
Healing This Life Shamanically

We have all had challenges in our lives, whether we consciously recall those challenges, they are vague memories or completely unconscious. We don’t need to remember a have an active, conscious memory for it to be have an impact. In fact, many individuals have painful unconscious memories, well hidden from their conscious mind, but nevertheless playing out patterns of rejection, abandonment, survival, loss and powerlessness. If you know in your early life, from prenatal to the age of three, your life went through big changes, then it’s worth understanding and witnessing that part of you. Your inner child (the inner male and female aspect), and even beyond this, can all hold trauma and chaotic emotions, buried in the depths of the body and cells. It’s not all gloom and doom though, while it might not be easy to know that we feel and remember everything on an energetic and feeling level (even when our conscious mind does not), you can heal these aspects of you without needing to consciously remember. It is also worth knowing that while you don’t recall in your everyday conscious state, when processing and unfolding in a session, these unhappy parts can quickly awaken to the call for witnessing and healing. Once this part of you that so needed the love and acceptance receives deeply what she or he needs, then the outpicturing from that early life in this current everyday reality, can begin to subside.

Soul Vine Clearing

Your Soul Vine is an energetic link that connects you to your 9 pointed Earth Star. Your Earth Star connects you to your soul purpose, when the Soul Vine is healthy, the path to your soul’s mission feels clear and magnetic. Your Earth Star is your reconnection to your commitment to Mother Earth, your life purpose and your life contracts.

The Soul Vine consists of 32 Flowers of Life or holomatrixs which spans 16 of your ancestors, 8 of your past lives and 8 collective field energies (absorbed from the collective unconscious). We then journey beyond the Halls of Amente, the Akashic records, passing through the Sphinx which guards the Soul Codes within your Earth Star.  We then release the codes within your Earth Star and next the Soul Star codes.

When we clear the Soul Vine an in incredible amount of trauma is purified and transmuted leaving us freer to get on with our path of awakening and life’s mission. This extended work is to be repeated in your own time to further the clearing. You can clear your mother and father line, and every time you repeat this, a different set of 8 past lives appear for clearing. It’s a focused and inexpensive way of clearing your consciousness in your time.

We are on this planet to focus and receive Light. Clearing out the soul vine initiates a very powerful reconnection with your lightbody – your Higher Self. It is like a passport, connecting us to our Luminous Egg, also known as the Great Light Assemblage Point. The Soul Vine is feminine and it is magnetic, it will take you. It holds the soup of collective memory – the memory of our past lives and ancestral karma, our contracts, lessons, and that which we have picked up collectively – like collective grief and sorrow.

Clearing Wounds From Point of Creation & Fall From Grace
Working With Birth Trauma
Ancestral Clearing

Our ancestors, which often we can trace back generations, made choices and decisions that ultimately impact us and the generations that comes after us. Their decisions and choices send our lives into a direction, for better or worse. It is often said, and it is represented in the astrology chart with the centaurs, that you need to heal the 7 generations. Our ancestors play out through our DNA. While our grandmother was carrying our mothers in her womb, we were being formed in our mothers ovaries. Isn’t that a strange thought. So whatever our grandmother was experiencing, we somehow have also inherited, either chemically or as I would also say, energetically. Our bodies are one dynamic and unfolding resonant system of vibrations, an orchestrated symphony, where every cell dances with a specific frequency. And that frequency is passed on, and on, and on. It is called the red thread. Energy in the form of unhealed wounds passes from our ancestors to us. The stories of our ancestors maybe all but forgotten but the energy lives on until someone pursues the healing.It may seem like we have led very different lives from our ancestors, but if you look a little closer, you will see yourself, your beliefs, your values, for better or worse, in yourself. The concept of linear time, all time exisitng at once – means we can work in the spirit realm, on an energetic level to heal the original wounds of our ancestors. The question is, are we going to carry on our mother line, or are we going to reset it to the essence of the Divine Mother – which is whom every woman is here to embody? If we do not heal our ancestors, if we do not heal our DNA, then we are quite simple programmed to become our mothers. As you transform the patterns and suffering of the generations that went before you, you are changing your own reality. On behalf of our ancestors, we are being asked to forgive, and call back our power, release what needs to be released and make peace with our past. We are all being called at different points to do this work, and it is a joy to have your ancestors on your side, working alongside you.

Healing The Sacred Wound

Our Sacred Wound radiates out in a logarithmic pattern through the cycles of our childhood. Like an egg before it is hatched, the entire blueprint of your particular slice of collective wounding is condensed at the moment of conception, and as the egg divides and subdivides so these microcosmic Divine principles are carried into each stage of your development. The wound is also like a genetic hologram, manifesting in layer upon layer of our developmental cycles. This is why when we clear and purify working with the Divine, we are clearing in layers.

Our fundamental developmental cycles occur every 7 years. Each of these 3 stages are imprinted in the 3 trimesters of pregnancy also. This is because it takes 7 years for the majority of the body’s cells to be replaced. Patterns picked up during these cycles then become lodged and buried within our nature, until we are ready to confront them. In our first 7 year cycle the Sacred Wound manifests as a contractive physical reflex. In our second 7 year cycle from 7-14 it manifests as a specific emotional defence strategy and in our third 7 year cycle the wound manifests as a particular belief system in our own unworthiness – which is personal to each individual.

Soul Fragment Work

Soul fragments occur with seemingly minor events. But soul shattering is when they soul literally shatters like glass. In this case, it can leave a person with extreme disassociation and feeling very ungrounded. The process of restoring the soul in it’s entirety is an incredible powerful as a healing tool. I often wonder that if we took this healing tool to communities around the world where rape was commonplace, women would feel much more empowered and able to move on after such a huge trauma and violation. Fragmentation is also an issue in past and ancestral lives. If at a core soul level, our consciousness has fragmented, then we have most likely experienced many further issues in that life and the life will need healing for that part of your multidimensionality to feel witnessed and resolved.

Vow, Contract, Agreement Break

When we state to ourselves or someone else with intention something that we declare we will always do or never do again, we effectively make a vow or contract. It’s like getting married, you make the vow and you are committed to the process. A similar process occurs when we take vows to religious orders. We commit ourselves wholeheartedly to turning up a certain way despite the world outside’s shifting reality, which might change what we want, need or value in life.

We can make seemingly simple vows like “I will always take care of my mother, I will always put her first”, which huge consequences. We remember the moments we make these vows since they are charged with emotion and conviction. These sorts of vows come in between us living healthy lives since when we declare to look after someone else to the detriment of ourselves, we will undoubtedly be given the lessons we need to let go of our dependence and martyrdom.

We can make contracts with our abusers. Often there exists an unspoken desire on the part of the abusee to take on the abuser’s fears and guilt, so they don’t need to deal with them themselves. This is especially the case when abuse happens within families and communities. Often it’s the abuser that either consciously or unconsciously incites their victim to take on the fears. This is a contract to take care of the abuser.

But vows do not just take place in this lifetime. We can make contracts to our abusers before we incarnate. We can also make vows in past lives. Vows of celibacy, poverty or to a spiritual master or religion can interfer with this current can deeply impact a current lifetime if they leave residue or powerful patterns of limitation and adherences to certain paths of growth. Many of these paths of growth that were deeply rewarding perhaps in past lives are simply now redundant or harmful to our spiritual growth.

We work with Divine consciousness to rescind and break vows, contracts and agreements that are holding us back keeping us in limiting patterns of believing, behaving and thinking. The only thing that is required is awareness that a vow was made. How do we know if we made a vow? That’s the magic of our awareness, we just seem to ‘know’ when this is the case. The energy is there for it and the emotions are very real within that space of exploration.

Cord Cutting & Pulling Back Power & Projections
Clearing Wounds At Conception

Our so-called 12 strand DNA is not a physiological phenomenon, it is not in our physical dimension of experience. The restoring of our 12 strands means a realignment with all the different levels of multidimensionality within ourselves. This alignment requires a relaxation, clarification and release of toxins from our systems, a flushing of the system, and flushing out primarily fear.

Fear is rooted in limiting, old beliefs, patterns, and self-identification. When we have bought into certain belief structures, those beliefs, by definition, do not give you the capability of seeing your whole self, your full multidimensionality – they narrow and limit your identity by identifying you with ‘something’.  Belief systems are self-reinforcing, self-contained and do not contain a definition that says we have an ability to go beyond that belief system.

If we can allow ourselves a foundational belief system that says all belief systems can be transmuted, then we are still in a limited reality. All belief systems can have a back door that will allow you access to another belief system easily and quickly, and effortlessly, and lovingly, and creatively, and joyfully. Fortunately we can now instantaneously change and transmute our belief systems with Divine consciousness and a large dose of awareness. But we must also transmute the memories that contain the belief systems. We need that anchor, otherwise we do not sufficiently witness the old pain that so needs to be compassionately held by us.

The idea to understand is not so much that the DNA is within us but that we are DNA itself. So we are the DNA being, “cellularly,” molecularly. We are consciousness expressing itself in physical reality as DNA – that being then surrounds itself, builds from itself, whatever kind of physical garment best fits its environment. By getting in touch with being DNA being, instead of the thinking of DNA as something within us, we can then get in touch with the ability to command and heal our DNA.

This is not a mysterious process, it is something that is simply a reflection of your intention, sent along the neurological pathways stemming from the DNA. At the same time the center of the hemispheres of the brain, what you call the Corpus Callosum, in that centre and guided by, to some degree, the pituitary and the pineal, is the idea of a true doorway, through which all Divine information pours into the neurological net of your auric chakric system.

By bringing together the idea of being a DNA being with the gateway in the centre of our brain, we create a very strong dynamic between those two concepts. That is a very, very powerful key to making changes within yourself neurologically, biologically, biochemically, energetically.

There are many different ways to go about getting in touch with being a DNA being. Use your imagination to feel the idea of going down smaller, smaller, smaller, smaller, smaller until you are a DNA helix within your body. Become that helix. Start to identify as it, and you will unlock powers you never imagined were possible in physical reality.

Our mind uses our past experiences and our future expectations to decide the meaning we give the present.  Memory is stored in our DNA  and despite contrary belief it is not a static, permanent structure – it is actually re-written all the time.  In other words, our DNA evolves. We are our DNA and our DNA is multidimensional.  To learn more about this, research the genome blueprint.

As we all know, we inherit our DNA. But we don’t only inherit it from our ancestors, we also inherit it from our past lives, and our past experiences. These all get stored, mostly unconsciously, in our DNA.

With the Wormhole DNA technique, a little known technique channelled and taught to me by my teacher, we can isolate a series of past or ancestral lives focused around one issue we have been experiencing in this life. Through a process of journeying to that life, and healing, we can bring the old painful pattern and beliefs closure.  That means we no longer experience that painful pattern in the same way, or to the same degree of trigger or intensity. I need to repeat this in another way, so you actually take it in, that means, you can permanently release painful, old, old patterns of repetitive experiences forever.

Let me explain a little more about repetitive patterns. Essentially, these are just unconscious or conscious memories (held at many levels of our dimensionality – this life, other lives and ancestors lives) that keep repeating themselves through the out-picturing of our perceptions.  Our Ancestor’s consciousness is alive in our DNA. Many of the issues we have worked on for several years, but cannot seem to clear, are actually the unresolved issues of our ancestors. This is why they persist and resist healing. They need to be resolved in the dimension it was created.

This technique takes you through the worm holes of your DNA strands, back to the old stories of your past lives and ancestors. You will find that the subtle issues these stories present will be surprisingly familiar to you as you recognise your personal connection to their processes.

The beauty is that while many of us feel destined to play out our unconscious fears, old patterns and emotional triggers in our relationships, this is quite simply not our fate, as I have seen in my own life and many clients lives. You can move beyond these old patterns through working with your DNA in this way.

What’s more, within our relationships are etheric codes which carry our unconscious contracts with others – often these are very subtle and not understood.  For instance, a simplified version goes something like this “I will carry your shame and guilt so you do not have to face your own actions” or “I will play dumb so you can feel cleverer than me and feel good about yourself”.  Why do we do this? Because we have a mistaken notion of love. We have forgotten what pure, unconditional love is and so play out lower vibrations of love – human love.

Our planet Gaia is vibrating at a level of consciousness that now demands karma be not processed or worked through over lifetimes, but released instantaneously. The ascension energies require quicker shifts of consciousness – we have so much to release.  This channelled, powerful technique allows us quick and strong access to our memories held within our DNA.  This is not the same as past life regression. It goes way beyond that. We do not just witness and relive our lives, we bring them into alignment with our Ascended selves and heal them with Divine consciousness.

If you learn how to follow a memory process the healing impact is often profound, bringing freedom to live our the highest aspects of ourselves without perceived limitations. Everybody has this ability, it just takes trusting your body, your senses and your intuition.

Part of the process of clearing the past is releasing etheric cords, dysfunctional unconscious contracts and forgiving the projections of your quantum field.  Clearing old patterns from your quantum field, which tie you to the past and prevent you from being present in an open hearted way with current or past relationships brings complete liberation. You have to experience it to believe it!

Clearing Wounds In between Lives, Future & Parallel Lives

Our so-called 12 strand DNA is not a physiological phenomenon, it is not in our physical dimension of experience. The restoring of our 12 strands means a realignment with all the different levels of multidimensionality within ourselves. This alignment requires a relaxation, clarification and release of toxins from our systems, a flushing of the system, and flushing out primarily fear.

Fear is rooted in limiting, old beliefs, patterns, and self-identification. When we have bought into certain belief structures, those beliefs, by definition, do not give you the capability of seeing your whole self, your full multidimensionality – they narrow and limit your identity by identifying you with ‘something’.  Belief systems are self-reinforcing, self-contained and do not contain a definition that says we have an ability to go beyond that belief system.

If we can allow ourselves a foundational belief system that says all belief systems can be transmuted, then we are still in a limited reality. All belief systems can have a back door that will allow you access to another belief system easily and quickly, and effortlessly, and lovingly, and creatively, and joyfully. Fortunately we can now instantaneously change and transmute our belief systems with Divine consciousness and a large dose of awareness. But we must also transmute the memories that contain the belief systems. We need that anchor, otherwise we do not sufficiently witness the old pain that so needs to be compassionately held by us.

The idea to understand is not so much that the DNA is within us but that we are DNA itself. So we are the DNA being, “cellularly,” molecularly. We are consciousness expressing itself in physical reality as DNA – that being then surrounds itself, builds from itself, whatever kind of physical garment best fits its environment. By getting in touch with being DNA being, instead of the thinking of DNA as something within us, we can then get in touch with the ability to command and heal our DNA.

This is not a mysterious process, it is something that is simply a reflection of your intention, sent along the neurological pathways stemming from the DNA. At the same time the center of the hemispheres of the brain, what you call the Corpus Callosum, in that centre and guided by, to some degree, the pituitary and the pineal, is the idea of a true doorway, through which all Divine information pours into the neurological net of your auric chakric system.

By bringing together the idea of being a DNA being with the gateway in the centre of our brain, we create a very strong dynamic between those two concepts. That is a very, very powerful key to making changes within yourself neurologically, biologically, biochemically, energetically.

There are many different ways to go about getting in touch with being a DNA being. Use your imagination to feel the idea of going down smaller, smaller, smaller, smaller, smaller until you are a DNA helix within your body. Become that helix. Start to identify as it, and you will unlock powers you never imagined were possible in physical reality.

Our mind uses our past experiences and our future expectations to decide the meaning we give the present.  Memory is stored in our DNA  and despite contrary belief it is not a static, permanent structure – it is actually re-written all the time.  In other words, our DNA evolves. We are our DNA and our DNA is multidimensional.  To learn more about this, research the genome blueprint.

As we all know, we inherit our DNA. But we don’t only inherit it from our ancestors, we also inherit it from our past lives, and our past experiences. These all get stored, mostly unconsciously, in our DNA.

With the Wormhole DNA technique, a little known technique channelled and taught to me by my teacher, we can isolate a series of past or ancestral lives focused around one issue we have been experiencing in this life. Through a process of journeying to that life, and healing, we can bring the old painful pattern and beliefs closure.  That means we no longer experience that painful pattern in the same way, or to the same degree of trigger or intensity. I need to repeat this in another way, so you actually take it in, that means, you can permanently release painful, old, old patterns of repetitive experiences forever.

Let me explain a little more about repetitive patterns. Essentially, these are just unconscious or conscious memories (held at many levels of our dimensionality – this life, other lives and ancestors lives) that keep repeating themselves through the out-picturing of our perceptions.  Our Ancestor’s consciousness is alive in our DNA. Many of the issues we have worked on for several years, but cannot seem to clear, are actually the unresolved issues of our ancestors. This is why they persist and resist healing. They need to be resolved in the dimension it was created.

This technique takes you through the worm holes of your DNA strands, back to the old stories of your past lives and ancestors. You will find that the subtle issues these stories present will be surprisingly familiar to you as you recognise your personal connection to their processes.

The beauty is that while many of us feel destined to play out our unconscious fears, old patterns and emotional triggers in our relationships, this is quite simply not our fate, as I have seen in my own life and many clients lives. You can move beyond these old patterns through working with your DNA in this way.

What’s more, within our relationships are etheric codes which carry our unconscious contracts with others – often these are very subtle and not understood.  For instance, a simplified version goes something like this “I will carry your shame and guilt so you do not have to face your own actions” or “I will play dumb so you can feel cleverer than me and feel good about yourself”.  Why do we do this? Because we have a mistaken notion of love. We have forgotten what pure, unconditional love is and so play out lower vibrations of love – human love.

Our planet Gaia is vibrating at a level of consciousness that now demands karma be not processed or worked through over lifetimes, but released instantaneously. The ascension energies require quicker shifts of consciousness – we have so much to release.  This channelled, powerful technique allows us quick and strong access to our memories held within our DNA.  This is not the same as past life regression. It goes way beyond that. We do not just witness and relive our lives, we bring them into alignment with our Ascended selves and heal them with Divine consciousness.

If you learn how to follow a memory process the healing impact is often profound, bringing freedom to live our the highest aspects of ourselves without perceived limitations. Everybody has this ability, it just takes trusting your body, your senses and your intuition.

Part of the process of clearing the past is releasing etheric cords, dysfunctional unconscious contracts and forgiving the projections of your quantum field.  Clearing old patterns from your quantum field, which tie you to the past and prevent you from being present in an open hearted way with current or past relationships brings complete liberation. You have to experience it to believe it!

Clearing Genetic, Inheritance & Ancestral Programmes

Our so-called 12 strand DNA is not a physiological phenomenon, it is not in our physical dimension of experience. The restoring of our 12 strands means a realignment with all the different levels of multidimensionality within ourselves. This alignment requires a relaxation, clarification and release of toxins from our systems, a flushing of the system, and flushing out primarily fear.

Fear is rooted in limiting, old beliefs, patterns, and self-identification. When we have bought into certain belief structures, those beliefs, by definition, do not give you the capability of seeing your whole self, your full multidimensionality – they narrow and limit your identity by identifying you with ‘something’.  Belief systems are self-reinforcing, self-contained and do not contain a definition that says we have an ability to go beyond that belief system.

If we can allow ourselves a foundational belief system that says all belief systems can be transmuted, then we are still in a limited reality. All belief systems can have a back door that will allow you access to another belief system easily and quickly, and effortlessly, and lovingly, and creatively, and joyfully. Fortunately we can now instantaneously change and transmute our belief systems with Divine consciousness and a large dose of awareness. But we must also transmute the memories that contain the belief systems. We need that anchor, otherwise we do not sufficiently witness the old pain that so needs to be compassionately held by us.

The idea to understand is not so much that the DNA is within us but that we are DNA itself. So we are the DNA being, “cellularly,” molecularly. We are consciousness expressing itself in physical reality as DNA – that being then surrounds itself, builds from itself, whatever kind of physical garment best fits its environment. By getting in touch with being DNA being, instead of the thinking of DNA as something within us, we can then get in touch with the ability to command and heal our DNA.

This is not a mysterious process, it is something that is simply a reflection of your intention, sent along the neurological pathways stemming from the DNA. At the same time the center of the hemispheres of the brain, what you call the Corpus Callosum, in that centre and guided by, to some degree, the pituitary and the pineal, is the idea of a true doorway, through which all Divine information pours into the neurological net of your auric chakric system.

By bringing together the idea of being a DNA being with the gateway in the centre of our brain, we create a very strong dynamic between those two concepts. That is a very, very powerful key to making changes within yourself neurologically, biologically, biochemically, energetically.

There are many different ways to go about getting in touch with being a DNA being. Use your imagination to feel the idea of going down smaller, smaller, smaller, smaller, smaller until you are a DNA helix within your body. Become that helix. Start to identify as it, and you will unlock powers you never imagined were possible in physical reality.

Our mind uses our past experiences and our future expectations to decide the meaning we give the present.  Memory is stored in our DNA  and despite contrary belief it is not a static, permanent structure – it is actually re-written all the time.  In other words, our DNA evolves. We are our DNA and our DNA is multidimensional.  To learn more about this, research the genome blueprint.

As we all know, we inherit our DNA. But we don’t only inherit it from our ancestors, we also inherit it from our past lives, and our past experiences. These all get stored, mostly unconsciously, in our DNA.

With the Wormhole DNA technique, a little known technique channelled and taught to me by my teacher, we can isolate a series of past or ancestral lives focused around one issue we have been experiencing in this life. Through a process of journeying to that life, and healing, we can bring the old painful pattern and beliefs closure.  That means we no longer experience that painful pattern in the same way, or to the same degree of trigger or intensity. I need to repeat this in another way, so you actually take it in, that means, you can permanently release painful, old, old patterns of repetitive experiences forever.

Let me explain a little more about repetitive patterns. Essentially, these are just unconscious or conscious memories (held at many levels of our dimensionality – this life, other lives and ancestors lives) that keep repeating themselves through the out-picturing of our perceptions.  Our Ancestor’s consciousness is alive in our DNA. Many of the issues we have worked on for several years, but cannot seem to clear, are actually the unresolved issues of our ancestors. This is why they persist and resist healing. They need to be resolved in the dimension it was created.

This technique takes you through the worm holes of your DNA strands, back to the old stories of your past lives and ancestors. You will find that the subtle issues these stories present will be surprisingly familiar to you as you recognise your personal connection to their processes.

The beauty is that while many of us feel destined to play out our unconscious fears, old patterns and emotional triggers in our relationships, this is quite simply not our fate, as I have seen in my own life and many clients lives. You can move beyond these old patterns through working with your DNA in this way.

What’s more, within our relationships are etheric codes which carry our unconscious contracts with others – often these are very subtle and not understood.  For instance, a simplified version goes something like this “I will carry your shame and guilt so you do not have to face your own actions” or “I will play dumb so you can feel cleverer than me and feel good about yourself”.  Why do we do this? Because we have a mistaken notion of love. We have forgotten what pure, unconditional love is and so play out lower vibrations of love – human love.

Our planet Gaia is vibrating at a level of consciousness that now demands karma be not processed or worked through over lifetimes, but released instantaneously. The ascension energies require quicker shifts of consciousness – we have so much to release.  This channelled, powerful technique allows us quick and strong access to our memories held within our DNA.  This is not the same as past life regression. It goes way beyond that. We do not just witness and relive our lives, we bring them into alignment with our Ascended selves and heal them with Divine consciousness.

If you learn how to follow a memory process the healing impact is often profound, bringing freedom to live our the highest aspects of ourselves without perceived limitations. Everybody has this ability, it just takes trusting your body, your senses and your intuition.

Part of the process of clearing the past is releasing etheric cords, dysfunctional unconscious contracts and forgiving the projections of your quantum field.  Clearing old patterns from your quantum field, which tie you to the past and prevent you from being present in an open hearted way with current or past relationships brings complete liberation. You have to experience it to believe it!

Ascending Lifetimes & Finding Mastery Lives

Your Akashic records are your library of your entire history since you took birth on this planet. We are not designed to remember our past lives like we remember our current life experiences. This is because memory is mainly held within the brain. We have synapses that hold memory. Past life memory is held in the Akashic record, not in the synapses of the brain. Your Akashic record is held in every cell of your body, within the quantum field of your DNA. Your DNA communicates to you in a different way to your brain. It has to impart information to you so that your brain can be cognisant of the information. To bring the information up to consciousness, multidimensional fields are overlapped. This is what is also used in our electronic systems. This overlapping of multidimensional field speaks through concepts and emotions.

There is a field around your DNA that interacts with your consciousness. Your past lives mostly influence you through the emotions and experiences of
fear, drama, guilt and unfinished business. Whenever you come into contact with something that is familiar to a piece of information from a past life, an emotional signal is sent out from your cells. These emotions go through drivers that feed information into your brain. For example; If you are someone with ideas that are very contrary to mainstream culture, you may have anxiety about sharing those ideas. The anxiety is being sent through the driver to the brain, reminding you that you could be killed for sharing ideas that people do not like. You may be sailing on a ship and be consumed with an irrational fear of being ship wrecked. Again the past life memory within your cells is sending fearful messages to your brain. One more example: You may have just gotten hired for a new job as a person with a lot of responsibility and power. But now you have this irrational feeling of guilt and fear that you will fail and something catastrophic will happen.

This is all related to karma. We accumulate karma from each of our lifetimes. Karma is played out by resolving it or recreating it. We have emotions in our Akashic records of experiences that we lived through. Many times we have multiple lives where we repeat the same behaviours over and over, even when they are not good for us. For example: when you are born with a lack of self-worth and a feeling like you do not have a right to be here, you will choose a family with a vibrational match which will somehow give you an experience to validate those feelings. Then you may choose relationship partners that make you feel the same lack of self-worth or not having a right to be here. Others will ask why you keep choosing the same type of relationships as if you are making a mistake. But actually to resolve the karma, your cells send out the emotions, which act as antae to find a relationship match, so that you can resolve this issue and end the karma.

The prodigy child is an example of past life mastery. When we choose to become a master at something, we will incarnate life after life learning the skill we are working on. Sometimes after mastering a skill, our Akashic records will pour information as concepts into our brain. Like a child who can play the piano like a master. The Akashic record pours information like move your hands like this, focus your mind like this, remember what the keys sound like, remember playing this song. The same thing happens with artist, singers, healers. There is no memory of learning that comes from the brain. It is all stored in the DNA.

We have talked about the Pineal Gland being a filter of information. As the planet is rising in vibrational frequency, and you are healing which creates a higher frequency in your body, your pineal gland will be opening the filter gates to allow more information into your consciousness. Your pineal gland is also the gate keeper for your Akashic records. The process of information filtering into your consciousness is usually automatic. Most of the time we do not even recognise that the information we receive is connected to past lives. As our vibrational frequency rises, we will begin to have access to the positive energy we accumulated over our many lives. As you allow the light truth and awareness to enter your consciousness and your belief systems open you up to Higher Truths, your experiences of mastery lives will have an ever increasing influence on your being. This is how your Akashic record can help you to evolve and change. The old souls who have been here for 1000s of life times have experienced just about everything there is to experience on this planet. This means that you have access to those experiences and they can help you.

The majority of your DNA is spiritual, which means it’s held in the quantum field, your energy field, rather than in the consensus reality of matter. In your DNA you carry an old paradigm of karma. You have been dealing with your karma for hundreds of life times. When you retreat from this planet you assimilate back into God Consciousness. When you return to this planet you pick up your ancient Akashic records. You may be a different gender, race, or born into a different culture, but no matter where you land, you still have your same Akashic record that travels with your being. The Akashic record remains the same. It records everything. Nothing is forgotten.

With the new energies on the planet we will not have to focus on clearing karma forever, which has been our past paradigm. There will come a point in your development where you will not have to deal with it any longer. The next time you take birth you will not have any karma to deal with. There are people being born now on this planet who are karma free. Without being controlled by karma we are able to be in control of our lives. You are not a victim of circumstances

that push and pull you. You still have your life lessons which you created for yourself before taking birth that will lead to greater awareness.

Our Earth Path chart, our Astrological Chart, in other words, our soul blueprint holds the energy dynamics that will ultimately help to wake us up. We do this by facing our challenges and growing through them. This is different to karma. Where karma is a balancing of energies and completing business, your lessons are more about personal development.

The Ascended Masters are talking about this incredible phenomenon. At this point you will not be driven by fear, drama, guilt, and unfinished business. When this happens there is a recalibration of your DNA. You will carry more light, and you will be creating your life as you choose. Once you make a commitment to waking up you will realise this reality in a relatively short period of time. This is such a blessing to humanity. It is because of these new high frequencies that we have an opportunity for a total paradigm shift in consciousness.

Your new driver in the Akashic records will be love, compassion, and finished business. You will feel a higher self-worth and a purpose for being here. As your vibrational frequency raises your self-esteem raises and this allows the Akash to speak to the brain in higher concepts and truths. As we taught in the beliefs module, this will change the chemistry of the brain, this process will affect your chemistry. As your chemistry changes you feel better, have more love in your awareness and your body responds. You will have better health and live longer.

Ultimately you will remember the parts of you that are your God/Goddess Self. These memories of who you really are, or the realisations you will have on the way, and the moments of ah ha, will be recorded in your Akashic records. These moments will never be forgotten and will guide you in your path to enlightenment. Each epiphany is recorded and stored in your Akashic records. These epiphanies change your cellular makeup and inform your consciousness. Your DNA has increased in vibration of your being.

Now let’s talk about mining the Akashic records. There are several ways to do this. First let us give a simple explanation for what happens in the cells when they divide. All the cells have a specialised purpose in your body. At the time the cell divides it is planning its regeneration. There is a split second where the cell asks an inquiry from the original cell for the new cell. It asks, will there be a change? 99.9% of the time, there is no change. Life continues on. The body does what it does and people grow old, get diseases and eventually die. You have the ability through intent and perseverance to command your cells to give a different answer at the time of the cell division when the inquiry is happening. Let’s say you want to heal an illness, remove a block, develop a talent, change your consciousness, or forgive someone etc. Your ancient Akash has information to help. You have a treasure chest of life within your Akashic records. Now the inquiry is more complex at the time of cell division.

1. The inquiry happens. To change or not to change.
2. The signal is to change
3. Then it says what do we need for this division to make a difference in the thing the
individual gave consciousness to.
4. The cell divides in a way it has not done so before. The DNA knows all about who
you were and will draw from that information to reprogramme the new cell’s consciousness.
5. It could take days, weeks, months or years. It does not necessarily happen all at
once.
6. You must continue to command the cells through the use of something like a 
mantra.

The second way to mine the Akashic records is by going down the DNA. We use the same technique as for ancestral and past lives. You create your 5th dimensional temple. But this time when you address the Encodement team, instead of asking to clear an issue, you ask them and Divine Will to show you the lives that will help you develop a talent, any mastery lives, lives that will help you remember your gifts you came in with, help you on your path of awakening and so on. When you go into the life, you are only there to feel and to learn. There is no need to heal this life. Just explore it. The access to the feelings will ignite the DNA to bring the experience into your consciousness. It will give you information and feelings you would not have access to otherwise.

For example; someone who is not a business person but whose chart says she is supposed to be can find lives where she created financial success. I had a life as a textile merchant in an Arab country where I loved my work and was very proud of it, traveled internationally and people respected me from all over. This life gave me access to feelings of competence never before felt, and courage to develop a business, bringing spirituality together with business, showing how to depend on God as the new supplier of all things. When I started working in Israel in Nazareth which is an Arab village, the first morning at 4 am when the call to prayer played over the speakers all over the village, I cried and my heart had a body memory of hearing this sound and it brought such love into me. Every time I heard it throughout the day, I would run to the window and just listen. When the encodement team took me to this life, I felt the love I had for Islam. I had such a pure love for God in that lifetime.

Finding your mastery lives is such an enriching experience and can change your self concept, raise your vibrational frequency, bringing those powerful gifted memories up to the surface.

Clearing Judgments, Belief Systems, Memories, Programmes, Ego Agendas & Sabotage PatterNs

Clearing Beliefs, Perceptions, Judgements
Quantum Memory Clearing
Clearing Old Sabotage Patterns
Clearing Hidden Ego Agendas
Working With Fears & Phobias
Genetically Encoded Programmes
Marriage of Polarities
Abundance Issues
Clearing Psychological Conflicts
Working With Abuse - emotional, sexual, psychological, physical
Releasing Blocks To Positive Living
Internal Inference Programmes
Working With & Clearing Addictions Including Drug Imprints
Working With Unmet Needs
Working With Shadow Energies

Working With Relationships, Soul Mates & Twin Flames

Relationship Themes, Patterns, Contracts, Vow Breaks

There are many different situations that might require faciliation and awareness of conflict dynamics. Whether it’s a difficult relationship at home or work, our work emphasis is on the moment-to-moment unfolding of a relationship.

This work is very different to other types of relationship work in that rather than emphasising decisions that need to be made such as separating or staying together, the focus is on what’s really there in the moment, in the relationship.

Marriage, divorce, and separation are important legal constructs, but they do not accurately reflect the emotional reality of a couple. When we follow and unfold the momentary flow and evolving dance that occurs in a relationship, we connect less with it as a battleground and more with it as a dance.

It might be relieving to hear that separation, divorce, and togetherness are momentary, fluid processes, rather than rigid stuck realities – in other words, we are constantly moving in and out of these potential realities inside our own heads. From this perspective, we may be very close one moment and quite separate the next. Sometimes these momentary states indicate that it actually is time to make a decision to be married or divorced or separated, but there is also flux and change even when these major decisions have been reached.

Another key idea is that relationships have both a practical, everyday part and also a dreaming, infinite aspect. From this perspective, relationships don’t ever end. Even if the daily relating decreases or disappears, an eternal part goes on in a changed form. Postulating an eternal part of relationships has the potential to change our whole perspective on couples separating.

The idea that there is no absolute right or wrong if people separate, and the idea that relationships are not fixed but always changing, are two sides of the same coin. As we move away from imposing a model of what is right or wrong, we move to a perspective of following the evolution of a couple’s relationship.

Our conflict resolution approach is based upon placing more emphasis on the feeling-level connection between couples. Thus, legally married couples may at times feel blissfully together, but at other times may need long periods of separation or intense conflict. Heterosexual, homosexual, and bisexual couples who are not legally married also experience a range of relationship needs. In this fluid perspective, couples define themselves from moment to moment. Some couples may often feel close, others may fight constantly, and both types may consider themselves coupled (or not). In this view, the power of definition lies with the individuals rather than somewhere outside such as the state or church.

We focus upon the changes a person or couple goes through so we avoid the behaviorist tendency to recommend that he change and develop new personality traits or behavioral patterns. We side with change and with awareness of what is happening in any given moment to avoid programming a person to be whole and balanced. We do not suggest change as an outer solution, but support changes as they emerge from the your own or the couple’s process.

There are personal and collective shifts present in relationships. Roles present in relationships also need to shift. If both partners are not able to grow out of old roles to encounter newness in themselves then often relationship endings take place. Collective shifts around men and women issues are constantly being encountered in relationships.

As therapists, we understand the need to learn to speak of these cultural forces present–the force of tradition, the forces of sexism, homophobia, racism, the forces of mainstream thinking, the forces of liberation, freedom, and change. These collective winds blow through relationships and change them, and if they are not named, couples often feel victimised by their experiences.

If we approach the relationship flexibly, the part that no longer works may die, while the part with energy lives on. A couple might want to give up living together but keep their musical or physical relationship alive. In the old model, the entire relationship must end, except for certain legally prescribed forms such as parental rights. We can move beyond the all or nothing approach and we can support you to do that.

At a more esoteric level, these outer manifestations of an ongoing connection reflect the deeper dreaming process that continues after the formal end of a relationship. Relationships have an eternal side beyond ‘death’ in that they are guided by myths reflected in the early dreams and dreamlike experiences of the relationship.

For example, I remember a couple who said that their earliest relationship memory was that they were out to dinner, and the man tried to do a magic trick where he pulled the tablecloth out from under the dishes on the table. The magic only partially worked, and the dishes went all over the place and created a huge mess. These two main elements of magic and mess became two key elements that much of their relationship was organised around. The central difficulty of the couple was when there got to be too much mess and not enough magic, the woman would become disillusioned and they would have bring in more magic. When things got too orderly and not exciting enough, the man became disillusioned. This relationship was not just about two people, but about two different energy states, magic and order, interacting.

The first dream often holds the relationship myths – which are the central dreaming background to relationship. When certain myths are lived out, couples can move on from each other, or they may discover new myths to work on with each other. Some couples have myths that need to be worked on for their lifetimes. Having a myth that takes long-term work to fulfill brings up the eternal side of relationship connections. Eternal connections are not bound by convention, time, space, or marriage certificates.

Similarly, spiritual bonds are not made in the legal realm and can’t be cancelled in the legal realm. I have seen many couples who have done everything possible to destroy their connection, yet the connection still lives. This is not just codependency in which two people live off each other to form a whole. In contrast, deep spiritual connections are built on two beings who are individuals and also strongly connected.

It’s common in couples that one partner will threaten, “If you don’t do this, or if you ever do that, I will never have anything to do with you again.” Then the other partner has an affair, or makes a career change the first partner prohibited. Despite all the threats to end the relationship, the forbidden act, when processed, may lead to an even more powerful connection. Relationships that are meant to continue in some form can withstand all kinds of relationship dynamite.

This sort of endurance is not codependent, such as when an alcoholic and her partner support each other’s denial. In a spiritually rooted connection the couple has to work through all that happens. They do not support each other’s denial, but are instead intimately involved in helping each other wake up and become more aware.

Determining which parts of a relationship persist because of the spiritual power behind the guiding myth and which parts endure because of codependency is a difficult task. We help differentiate between these two possibilities by observing the ongoing dreams of the people in the relationship. For example, codependency will appear as a repetitive problem in both people’s dreaming. These kinds of dreams disturb one or both partners, irritating them into waking up.

In contrast, some relationships are dedicated to helping people become free of their personal and shared addictions, and these are very powerful connections. If a relationship like this is interrupted on the daily physical plane, through separation, divorce, or death, it will continue in dreaming. Even death doesn’t stop an eternal connection. After the death of a partner or parent we can continue to experience enormous positive shifts in the relationship.

Some relationships have no honeymoon period. From the first moment together they were working on deep issues. Such relationships not only focus on interpersonal issues, but the issues constantly challenge both people to develop their whole selves. Such couples will often say, “Why am I with so and so when they push every button I have?”.

Often from the outside these relationships appear to be filled with conflict and suffering, and external observers are often frightened by or disapproving of the intensity present. The relationship may go through many periods of death and renewal, and may need frequent outside help. People who have this as their relationship myth seem to have little choice–they either work with their connection willingly or the relationship difficulties become so great they are forced to do the necessary personal growth and relationship work that is being asked of them.

Another side of recognising the eternal aspect of relating involves accepting death and change. Buddhist teachers often say that the first lesson of Buddhism is the wisdom of impermanence. Everything changes, and our attachment to holding on to the way things are is a major cause of our suffering. Relationships are constant teachers of this principle. Couple’s often talk about how they suffer when their relationship changes, since they were sure that this relationship would last forever in its current form. People are angry at their partner, God, and everyone else when a relationship changes.

Our work is to help people work with their attachment, get to know their detachment, and stay in touch with the eternal spiritual background of their relationships that will continue no matter how the form changes. Relationships that welcome death as part of the process also allow for rebirth. As the old parts of the process and old structures die, the potential for the new grows.We must not avoid death states since they often hold the potential for something new and exciting to regenerate the relationship.

We can help bring awareness of both the impermanent and eternal aspects of relationship. Relationships that lack the fluidity to accept change can die of stagnation. Many couples cannot let go and embrace change without a deep personal sense of the eternal and of spiritual life.

Spiritual traditions sometimes refer to death as the great awakening. Major relationship transformations, including divorce and separation, may also provide an opportunity for great awakenings. Such changes have the potential to awaken people to their own nature, the nature of relationship and the nature of life.

These ideas on the eternal nature of relationship are not meant to replace the importance of knowing when and how to end a relationship. When relationships become physically, psychologically, or spiritually destructive, it is time for them to transform or move on. When relationships are destructive, the daily connection often needs to be broken, while something in the dreaming world will continue.

In situations where a relationship is no longer working, we look for signs that both partners are willing to work with and transform the situation. Often, one or both partners are finished but can’t let go. Letting go then becomes the teaching. The couple’s job is to learn the importance of letting go. When couples can let go, the pain is often great, and so is the relief.

Relationship addiction can also prevent people who need to separate from letting go. People stay together, even in damaging relationships, because they are addicted to each other. We are defining addictive relationship as the kind of relationship (or phase in a relationship) in which there is a large gap between the dream one person has of their partner and the reality of the partner. In addition, an addictive relationship is physically, psychologically, or spiritually harmful.

In addictive relationships usually one or both people gives their partner enough of something to keep them hooked, but not enough to satisfy. This partial satisfaction is very powerful. If someone meets almost none of your needs, it is easy to let go, and if a partner truly meets your needs, there is no reason to let go. However, someone who meets your needs in flashes or moments, or almost meets your needs, or plays with meeting your needs, offers a powerful hook.

At some point, the pain of the frustration becomes so great that it hurts one or both people. It is our job at this point to point out that what is happening is not love but addiction, and challenge the couple to break the addiction. Addiction looks like love, but it is a cheap imitation. People often don’t realise this until they enter a truly loving relationship. We might need to provide information and support in the transition until there’s a realisation of how incomplete and dissatisfying the addictive relationship is.

Addictive relationships, like any addiction, can be difficult to transform. We can bring awareness of the addictive pattern and support with continually confronting the addiction. It is easy for the couple to slip back into the old groove, but there is a moment when an addiction must be faced and broken. Outer signs of when it is time to break the addiction include when one or both partners develops physical symptoms related to the relationship; develops substance addictions; becomes depressed or anxious, or has other psychologically difficult states that become an ongoing pattern. At such times, it is important to check in with a person’s deepest feelings in order to discover a direction.

Our role as therapists is to help couples and families have the courage and awareness to follow the relationship whether the river is calm or full of rapids, whether the relationship is beginning, continuing, transforming, or ending. The emphasis is not on just reaching the end point, but on appreciating and learning from all points on the journey. As therapists, we are aware of the societal pressures couples and families face. Despite these pressures, people will be drawn to follow their own natures, and our job is to support them in this important task.

We can help you create a new relationship model that helps both individuals feel connected to the vitality within the relationship, not only at the exciting beginnings, but throughout the relationship, including at times of transition and ending.

Relationships are challenging. Creating, maintaining and sustaining a successful relationship can be hard work even at the best of times. If you don’t have the skills, you have no time because of work commitments or children then working through everyday problems that arise in relationship can get put to the side and over time this builds resentment and deeper issues.

Every relationship needs care and attention to be effective & safe. Taking care of your relationship means learning about the nature of your relationship and knowing key tools for communication and trouble shooting.

When two people have the will to go deeper with one another, not only confronting their pain, but actively participating in their pleasure, anything feels impossible. The whole is truly more than the sum of its parts

A balance of power enables a long-term, intimate relationship to flourish. But though two people in a couple need to be equal in everything, they are not necessarily equal at everything. A truly nurturing intimacy has the capacity to help each individual heal from the pain of the past, and to empower each one of them, in the present, to reach for their dreams.

Yin Yang Polarity Balancing
Tools For Working On Relationships
  • Here’s some of the following ways of working on relationships in sessions.
  • Communication skills – knowing how to listen without interpreting or interrupting 

  • Learning to use “I” messages 

  • The ability to name and bring up a conflict that you have directly 

  • The ability to give and receive feedback
  • Awareness of signals, double signals
  • The ability to pick up and unfold own double signals, especially body signals; helping other to notice theirs
  • The awareness of edges (belief system) and double edges (two belief systems that are different and coexist and mean you can’t easily be anywhere – rock and hard place), includes ability to notice and 
 work with own edges and to notice other’s edges
  • Working with accusations and blaming – ability to find the 1%
  • The ability to work with third parties, past, future
  • Seeing how the process being discussed is happening in the moment 


Some of the very common problems that people in relationships face are:

  • Use of third parties, past, future – i.e someone else in the relationship often represents something that both partners need at some level – i.e whenever a third party is even mentioned by name, it infers some kind of quality
  • Noticing other’s double signals and not your own mistaking feedback– not seeing positive or negative feedback (due to own complexes)
  • Counter accusations and escalation
  • Assuming the other is identified with their secondary process. Often the 
thing that irritates you most in the other person, they need to do more but consciously
  • Supporting each others primary process, more likely with symmetrical 
 edges


Some ways of bringing resolution to conflict are:

  • The ability to know when you are on own side, other side, neutral
  • Fluidly moving between the various roles
  • Having some knowledge of escalation and de-escalation signals in self and other
  • Recognising how your own double signals leads you to be able to switch 
 roles internally and externally
  • Familiarity with the connection between rank and your role-taking abilities

Some of the most common problems that occur in relationships are:

  • Not being able to take other side–to just take own side is never enough.
  • Not being able to take own side
  • Lack of ability to metacommunicate
  • Not noticing escalation and de-escalation signals
  • Getting one sided
  • Being frozen, related to abuse issues

An important but often overlooked aspect of relationships is understanding about rank and having rank awareness, this is about:

  • Our ability to deal with areas of both higher and lower rank
  • The recognition of various types of rank: social, psych, spiritual, contextual
    The ability to recognise when unconscious rank is affecting the relationship
  • The ability to notice and unfold rank (double) signals in self and other
  • The ability to use your higher rank for the benefit of the whole

Common Problems within rank issues:

  • An over identification as victim when you have less rank, not seeing the power that you do have
  • Unconsciousness about higher rank: guilt, paralysis, trying to be good, being defensive, patronising
  • Unconscious revenge: one person feels put down and wants to get back 


Mood and Field Work

  • Awareness of high and low dreaming in self and other
  • Awareness of what happens to you when your high dreams aren’t fulfilled
  • Noticing and working with hopelessness
  • Noticing and working with co-dependence
  • Knowing when and how to focus on the relationship myth
  • Recognising when you are working on something for the larger 
 community/ world
  • The ability to notice and name atmospheres

Common problems:

  • Getting sunk in low mood with no periscope or meta-position
  • Being blinded by your high dream and not seeing signals
  • Marginalising others who don’t fit your high dream 


Inner Work necessary to work on your relationship issues:

  • Ability to drop out of contact and work on yourself internally; knowing when this is useful
  • Knowing that “the other is you”
  • Recognising and working with projection and dreamed up reactions
  • Being able to differentiate dreaming up from counter transference.
  • Getting into and out of affects
  • Knowing when you need to burn your own wood

Common problems:

  • Taking everything too personally, no sense of detachment
  • Not knowing when to drop out and work on yourself
  • Taking everything internally, blaming yourself

General metaskills needed in relationships

  • Spiritual warriorship: we are here to learn and grow
  • Caring for the relationship as a whole
  • Welcoming both troubles and love, saying yes to getting into stuff
  • Seeing, and recognising the inherent value of the other person: everyone has deep need to be seen
  • Appreciation of both people for being present and willing to work

Common problems:

  • Often missed or ignored: body signals, movement work
  • Being like a therapist, focusing too much on the other
  • Not knowing one’s own rank (especially when you feel hurt, angry, etc)
  • Not going far enough either into your own side or the other side
  • Not seeing the other as you
  • Not taking the initiative to clean up messes, waiting for the other to bring 
up the problem
  • Staying with the content of the fight or argument and not seeing it in the 
momentary signals, getting hypnotised by content 

  • Benchmarks for Working on Own Conflict Relationships
  • Use eldership to bring up a conflict, invite and create a space for discovery, and appreciate yourself and the other for going into the unknown
  • Bring in your issues, accusation, disturbance directly and in such a way that the other can respond
  • Pick up an accusation, find out where and how it is true for you
  • Take your own side without defensiveness, take the other person’s side and step out and find your neutrality or Big U, even in the middle of a conflict.
  • Notice and unfold double signals and secondary experiences and bring them in to your interactions, getting past the primary process content to discover the larger meaning of the conflict
  • Notice your own rank signals and make it useful in your interaction
Twin Flame Work - Divine Masculine & Feminine Integration

At the moment of creation, the Creator gave forth it’s tremendous love and created an orgasmic explosion of Love from which we all emerged, as the multitudinous facets of that Love. As energetic beings we spark from this light and all the colours of the rainbow, all the 7 rays which retract from the white light. As we spark out, so does our Twin soul, from the same ray.

As a Twin soul pair, a unique and individual cell Source’s infinite heart with its own signature or vibration – one being but with two streams of consciousness. As aspects of the Divine, we are majestic streams of Light, of consciousness and here to fully embrace love.

These two universal forces of the Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine are the fundamental, primal elements of creation itself. They are the Father/Mother aspects of our Creator. They are both present in us as they are in our Creator. This is not, however, about gender of bodies on Earth. We do not speak here of bodies at all.

Deep within the heart of every being on this planet is a yearning for the Twin flame, this Divine counterpart. We are drawn to seek our Twin flame as they are the other half of the very essence of us, the being with whom we were created in spirit by the Divine at the very moment of creation. 

We have this feeling since it’s yearning creates such a powerful process of transformation, and we get catapulted on our path of growth. The activation of this yearning at this time on our planet is part of the spiritual awakening occurring now on Earth. We are remembering who we truly are and returning to Source out of separation. The Twin flame path is just a doorway into ourselves, into the very heart of the Divine.

So as we are now on this accelerated evolutionary journey and change is the evolutionary plan, it is possible to reunite and change the world through that process. More Twin flames are reuniting now and will continue to do so over the next 5-7 years. We are on a fastback now as the universe has a big plan, and many have collectively signed up for the twin flame group mission. There is always a Divine Mission and Service that the twins have agreed to fulfill. 

But the inner twin flame process is a push and pull dynamics and cycles, phases coming together to effectively bring awareness and vacuum out karmic issues. It is very hard work, until we move beyond hard work of course! During it we are forced to process that information alone, internally, rather than in direct relationship and create higher consciousness and awareness. As we move up the stupor, connecting to higher and higher versions of yourself, you release things that no longer serve your purpose.

This push, pull, forward, retracting process’ aim to eventually bring a harmonic balance so the dance of polarities make the music. The challenge is being able to be one with yourself, with the inner masculine and feminine.

The important thing to understand is that we make an agreement and contract with our twin flame, one of you says I’ll take these on these lessons and the other takes on other lessons. This creates an evolutionary process together which is a soul contract, creating a mission and we go through our evolutionary journey together, but not necessarily and often not in the same lifetimes. Often one will come into incarnation and the other does not. Once you have mastered a lot of your own lessons, you start to come into the same lives together. As you come back in together the ultimate goal is to become one, this requires huge mastery.

In past lives there was a less than a 1% chance you would incarnate at the same time and even less than that chance of you entering into a romantic relationship together. Of course there are exceptions, sometimes you do enter into a romantic relationship and something goes drastically wrong, as a result and that’s a lesson you choose together, but usually successful romantic relationships or partnerships are not emphasised. This has evolved and many can reunite with their twin flames.

In preparation for reunion, the process revolves around sharing what they have learnt, the lessons, their personally mastery and development and teach each other that which the other needs to learn still, this can begin once they unite on the physical and after harmonisation with self, and then harmonies with twin, it amplifies.

This can have the feeling of putting you both into checkmate where you hold each other accountable, especially in the final phases where you are getting to the core of the problems. This can be a deep process, as its the deep pit of karma, and its purging can be quite painful, but your twin is helping you purge and creating a vacuum-like effect pulling it out of you for release. In order to complete the agreements you made, to hold each other accountable, and all the pain contained in past lives. All these things need to be cleared before you can become one. Each other teaching is a mirror effect, which reflects back what you need to learn yourself.

Twin flames know very well the concept of runners and chasers, and this needs redefinition. We are only ever running from ourselves, as it’s challenging to look at ourselves. Equally the person assume to be doing the running is not the runner usually! It’s the person that is the higher vibration that’s focusing on the other twin that’s pulling them down to the lower vibration, not willing to let go, having no patience and wanting to control it, and of course not seeing the control level. The twin in resistance to the twin flame relationship is only holding up their end of the bargain by keeping you in checkmate so you work on yourself. Only when there’s a focus on fulfilling needs within yourself will you not be met with abandonment and rejection.

So to understand the Twin Flame, we must stretch for deeper understandings of the truth of humanity. We are all part of the individualised aspect of the Divine and this includes every person, no matter how they are expressing in a body or in this life. We are learning patience, humility, grace, surrender and Divine timing through the process.

The Twin flame role is to support all the life streams created here on earth to return to love and only love. This is the most important thing for our planet right now as we have been so closed to love. The opening of our heart, occurring for many others now also, which takes us into Oneness, is the critical shift which will change our entire lives and the world.

So, each being does have a Twin soul, but it’s important to know that not all have incarnated, and really we are learning to understand the Twin which is within us, that we all have.

The Love of Twin flames is love in its highest ideal, deeply felt through the heart as pure, natural, completely trusting, tender and eternal. There are no expectations, demands or needs to be fulfilled, nor are their external criteria to be met. It is based on Divine feeling and spiritual truth, and deep inner knowing. It is totally unconditional. So you can imagine the depths we need to go to in order to be ready for that kind of love in our everyday life.

The path of all true Love is giving in an outward flow, from our heart, that also receives it’s resources from within, as an infinite God supply. The Divine is calling every one of us to be willing to open our hearts to this kind of Love in the deepest possible way to be a part of creating a world of love. This is the essence of Twin flame Love.

Know that if a Twin flame appears in the outside world, the healing process has only just begun, and mostly it takes many years to be ready for physical reunion. There are never any guarantees as the mysteriousness of the Divine is always teaching us what we refuse to see. Additionally we must be prepared to journey with other soul mates and karmic partners to learn what we need to on order to be ready for our Twin flame relationship. Sometimes and even often we manifest a power partner that vibrates at a level we need for our service. But we never close the door on our Twin.

It is also imperative to understand for you to unify with your Twin, you must pick up your power and start fulfilling your purpose, you are NOT here to wait – waiting will just delay the process. If you move beyond your Twin, you can fulfil the joint contract with another, who matches your vibration. It’s important to not limit yourself to the Twin flame relationship, as if you do, you are just limiting your growth. Growth comes before union.

This doesn’t need to be a painful process, it can be an exciting learning process, where you can evolve and learn to know the Twin flame within your own heart, to be the best version of yourself. This is the best thing you can do if you are on your path of reunion. Searching for your Twin outside simply creates more illusions, begin by looking deep within and then you might one day be surprised.

I am only interested in attracting those interested on exploring their twin flame connection deeply, as opposed to those expecting a miraclulous technique that will bring you both together. To be clear – there are no magic tools – no matter what you are promised.

It is a process and not something that needs fixing, it is an unfolding dance of the masculine and feminine, the polarities within and without. If you are experiencing difficulties, and are geniunely on your path of awakening, I want to remind you that it is an exciting, albeit difficult journey, but it certainly doesn’t need to be full of suffering and pain.

Usually people know whether they are a twin flame and want to work on the dynamic, but if you are unsure still – of both these things – we can explore the dynamics and atune in to find out what’s true for you.

Making a commitment to understanding your twin flame journey is the key to creating self-awareness, which is the first step necessary to make changes in your life and within your twin flame relationship. This would be the first step for you to be ready to seriously start exploring this relationship.

Clearing Etheric Cords Between People

Our chakras act as energetic portals that connects us, not only to Source, but to everything in this universe. Our aura, also known as our energetic field becomes the filter of energy that we emit, along with the energetic signals we receive – becoming the energetic communication channel or frequency between us and everything and everyone around us.

All energetic communication is housed within an etheric body which becomes an accumulation of collective energy between everyone you and those you have come into physical contact with, but also stores Higher self communication between you, and everyone you have made a soul agreement with – this subconscious connection is where all universal contracts are enforced. These contracts are stored within the hall of records – also known as the Akashic records.

All energetic attachments that we create between ourselves and others are called etheric cords. These cords can become attached to our energetic bodies through, not only romantic relationship, but also every interaction we have with everyone including; every experience, creating a stored memory pattern housed within the DNA of our being, which can also be created by our thoughts, feelings, and emotions.

Etheric cords are a constant line of communication which is continuously sending and receiving signals back and forth between us and others. So depending on which energetic channel we tune into, a high or low frequency, it effects us on every level; including taking on the energetic imprints, thoughts, feelings and emotions of others – both positive and negative. This also explains our telepathic connection to others.

Often these channels of communication are affected by interference, which can produce radiowave distortion, not allowing you to receive crystal clear communication. That means that negative energetic cord attachments can prevent you from not only connecting to your Higher self and your greatest potential, but prevents you from energetically communicating and connecting with those you love. So, it is very important to keep your channels open, clear and free from distorted energetic patterns, including negative energetic attachments, which you experienced throughout your soul’s evolutionary journey.

This is why it’s so important to release your past, present and future karmic contracts and all vows that you signed up for, including cutting cords to all energetic attachments, dating all the way back to the beginning of your soul’s evolutionary incarnation. This is why past life work is very important.

Etheric cord attachments will block your chakras, and keeps your energies from flowing throughout your body, causing interference, resulting in feeling stuck. As you release these energetic blocks, you will restore balance in your life, which is critical to healing your soul on every plane and in every dimension. It will not only harmonise your soul’s vibration, but it will create harmony throughout the many dimensions of your soul’s being.

However, most often energetic cords are primarily attach to the following 3 chakras:

Heart chakra

Cords that attach to the heart chakra are usually associated with connections to those that we have loved deeply; such as, lovers, parents, children, and so on. When we feel broken hearted – our heart chakra triggers a response – producing feeling of contraction, which is and attempt to purge these cords – however, due to the energetic attachments unless we cut these cords they will remain – continuing to produce emotional pain and feelings of loss, preventing you from being open to give and receive love.

Solar Plexus Chakra

Cords that attach to this chakra are usually associated with those that we have short encounters with; such as, short-term relationships, co-workers, and strangers that momentarily cross our paths, and so on. When we become triggered by others it stimulates negative emotions, and our response becomes: fear, resentment, power struggle, comparison, and so on. Our solar plexus chakra triggers restrictive energetic flow within this chakra, which then creates feelings of being unsettled – it becomes that heavy feeling in the pit of your gut! This means your chakra is trying to purge the attached cords – however, because of the energetic attachment, unless we consciously cut these cords, they will remain – continuing to produce uneasy and unsettled feelings that will block your ability to trust.

Sacral Chakra

Cords that attach to this chakra are usually associated with those that we have experienced a sexual encounter. When we become sexually attracted to someone, it produces a chemical response that stimulates our sacral chakra to energetically connect to that person. Then depending on if this is a positive or negative experience, our sacral chakra triggers a response helping us to be creative, or shut down our ability to connect to our purpose with passion!

So,whether a positive or negative sexual experience, if you are no longer with that person, energetic cords attached to them, need to be cut. Otherwise, they can continue to trigger your responses, which will prevent you from attracting your Divine sexual partner – blocking you from experiencing sacred sexuality.

Possible Cords:

Negative relationships both known and unknown negative emotions, both known and unknown, and uknown and known experiences.

All karmic contracts, karmic debts and vows you have made for past, present and future

Atlantis – abandonemnt, forgiveness and codependency

Not feeling good enough or worthy enough – the need to meet the expectations for self or others or validation

Persceution – blocking you from expressing self and speaking your truth

Generational curses – letting go of the expectations of family, programming of their patterns etc

Cultural conditions – letting go of the expectations and conditioning of progammes from cultural patterns etc

Universal karmic clearing – clearing karmic patterns for the collective – including poverty and survival consciousness, 7 cardinal sins

All cords preventing you from connecting to your higher self, highest purpose, Divine partners

Relationships & Roles

Relationships have never been seen as a spiritual path in their own right. In the Eastern and Middle Eastern mystical traditions, there has always been an emphasis on the path of Devotion. There is very little traditional spiritual instruction in how to use relationship as a launch pad towards higher consciousness.

Every relationship in your life brings you the opportunity to find a deeper relationship to your own true purpose.

When relationships become difficult, no matter how hard we work on the relationship, many of us can find no other alternative but separation.

However, my work is to totally reframe the purpose of relationship. We tend to see the purpose of our relationships as a means to bring more happiness and this is understandable. Yet sometimes we need to go deeper into ourselves to find the truth. The problems with most relationships are that they were never entered into for the right reasons, and that in relationship, the individuals do not function as themselves. We need to know what our nature is and what’s correct for us, and to realise that relationships we’ve often been involved in are often not right for us.

These relationships can involve family, business, children, so on. We need to consider where happiness comes from, and is it the same as fulfillment? Our true Purpose is not an external thing. It is a quality of our consciousness within our relationships and through being in the relationship.

The purpose of your relationships is to exponentially enhance that quality of individual purpose in your life. When relationships become the most challenging you have the greatest opportunity to transform the raw, challlenging material or shadow that is preventing your purpose emerging more in your life.

Your purpose is never dependent on any outer condition or person. And the highest purpose of all our relationships is to deliver the opportunity of a full awakening of our heart, and our full embodiment, a real anchoring of high frequencies into the physical body.

Our relationships have unique karmic patterns woven into the fabric of its chemistry, and the karma unravels as you deepen your level of embodiment.

As you move to transmute deeper and deeper patterns, a light begins to grow inside you.

There is a common assumption that both partners need to be involved in the healing process to heal a relationship. This is a misconception that can cause more issues in the relationship. The fact is that it only takes one person to transform a relationship. One aspect of karma is that although it binds two people together, the initial deep transformation work is often only needing to be tackled by one partner.

If the teaching is correctly followed and embodied, then the other partner experiences a simultaneous opening. The moment you begin to disarm the difficult patterns from controlling your reactions, you create a new kind of spaciousness in the relationship, and this is felt by the other.

Relationship Edges - Communication

The truth is that most communication in relationships takes place without words. We exchange chemical signals through the invisible electromagnetic currents and impulses of the aura. Our thoughts, intent, and feelings are always conveyed through time and space before we are usually even consciously aware of them.

In most relationships we put a lot of time and effort into trying to communicate our inner state of unfulfillment. But that unfulfillment is our own deep issue, and it is difficult to find our way out of such a state through dialogue.

We need to notice our edges to other levels of communication, to the way we communicate without words. This way we learn to move beyond the binary forms of relating and into more elevated forms of intimacy.

Judgements About Men, Women & Relationships

It gets to a point when certain karmic relationships impress too much upon us that we need to release their karma.

There are many different ways of doing this, but working thoroughly is the key.

I combine releasing the dynamics through astrology and the earth path locked into your energy, and karmic cords, projections and transferences.

The effect is immediate, although it takes a week for the energy to release entirely and another month for integration.

Resolving Karmic Relationships

It gets to a point when certain karmic relationships impress too much upon us that we need to release their karma.

There are many different ways of doing this, but working thoroughly is the key.

I combine releasing the dynamics through astrology and the earth path locked into your energy, and karmic cords, projections and transferences.

The effect is immediate, although it takes a week for the energy to release entirely and another month for integration.

Karmic Monads

Karmic monads are specific polarities that two individuals agree to play out. The agreement is usually at the soul level. Each individual plays out one half of the polarity. This takes the form of a karmic matrix cord in their fields containing this programme. The cord has a specific energy pattern on the end of it like a key to a lock. It looks out for someone with a complementary half of the lock. When found, the two cords lock and play out the monad, which is always very intense.

Karmic monad examples, most commonly found are teacher/student, wife/husband, victim/perpetrator, hopelessly loving/hopelessly loved, guru/disciple, master/slave – but there are many others.

Many on a spiritual path draw monads to them to resolve certain strong karmic patterns in past lives, or alternatively to complete a process of new emerging qualities. They can be incredibly transformative, but equally traumatising. 

It is also common for the twin flame energy to be tied in karmic patterns.

The Physical Body

Healing Trauma, Accidents, Shock and Surgery in the Body

When we experience adverse situations, such as a traumatic event involving actual or threatened danger, we face incredible challenges. The initial stage following a traumatic event is often a time of silence. It’s common for recently victimised people to not talk about what happened – this can be down to shame, guilt, isolation, denial, confusion, social stigma or simply wanting to forget the experience. Trauma can create low self-esteem, force us to feel overwhelming and disconnected from others and our environment.

When we begin to emerge from the suffering and yearn for release, to let go and move on in our lives, our relationships or simply not be weighted down by the heaviness of the past memories and recall. At the stage, we are beginning to look for ways to move forward in our lives, although there is often still a tug-of-war taking place within the individual between a need to be safe and protect emotions and a need to grow and move beyond traumatic experiences.

Often for some people there is a process of working through victimisation, for others it’s self-blame or responsibility to the point of guilt and shame. Either way, working through these stages and fully understanding the tendency to fall back into to protect the self is important for healing.

Identifying the ways in which the experience has helped garner strengths supports a movement forward. This allows for a greater understanding and integration of the experience and its impact on life. Forgiveness can also be an important part of this step, although this should never be rushed. There are many feelings and emotions left behind during trauma, as well as intense emotional triggers and body symptoms.

For many, this entire process can take many years. For those with the readiness, there are quicker solutions. Each individual and each indiviudal trauma is different and must be approached as different and unique. The process of healing is not always linear. We can take one step forward and two steps back sometimes as we grapple to work with all the different elements.

The Somatic Experiencing® method is a body-oriented approach to the healing of trauma and other stress disorders. It is the life’s work of Dr. Peter A. Levine, resulting from his multidisciplinary study of stress physiology, psychology, ethology, biology, neuroscience, indigenous healing practices, and medical biophysics. The SE approach releases traumatic shock, which is key to transforming PTSD and the wounds of emotional and early developmental attachment trauma.

The SE approach offers a framework to uncover whether and where someone is ‘stuck’ in the fight, flight or freeze responses and provides clinical tools to resolve these fixated physiological states.

The SE approach facilitates the completion of self-protective motor responses and the release of thwarted survival energy bound up in the body, addressing the root cause of trauma symptoms. This is approached by gently guiding clients to develop increasing tolerance for difficult bodily sensations and suppressed emotions.

SE is a clinical methodology based upon an appreciation of why animals in the wild are not traumatised by routine threats to their lives, while humans, on the other hand, are readily overwhelmed and often subject to the traumatic symptoms of hyperarousal, shutdown and dysregulation. SE supports the completion of trauma.

Sacred Fire

A particular powerful approach to healing memories and trauma, especially if you believe in the power of the imagination and visualisation to heal. But it does go one step further than that, as it’s through an invocation that it is received. Calling upon this sacred Divine fire called the Violet Flame brings it into our consciousness, which can then be visualised in the inner eye and felt in the body as a transmutation, cleansing, purifying energy. It’s a very versatile tool, which can be invoked into memories, into emotions to release the old, past stories and supports forgiveness work. It does the work, so you don’t need to, the more you surrender to the Violet Flame, the more it can do the work

Healing Blocks To Health & Healing

When we experience adverse situations, such as a traumatic event involving actual or threatened danger, we face incredible challenges. The initial stage following a traumatic event is often a time of silence. It’s common for recently victimised people to not talk about what happened – this can be down to shame, guilt, isolation, denial, confusion, social stigma or simply wanting to forget the experience. Trauma can create low self-esteem, force us to feel overwhelming and disconnected from others and our environment.

When we begin to emerge from the suffering and yearn for release, to let go and move on in our lives, our relationships or simply not be weighted down by the heaviness of the past memories and recall. At the stage, we are beginning to look for ways to move forward in our lives, although there is often still a tug-of-war taking place within the individual between a need to be safe and protect emotions and a need to grow and move beyond traumatic experiences.

Often for some people there is a process of working through victimisation, for others it’s self-blame or responsibility to the point of guilt and shame. Either way, working through these stages and fully understanding the tendency to fall back into to protect the self is important for healing.

Identifying the ways in which the experience has helped garner strengths supports a movement forward. This allows for a greater understanding and integration of the experience and its impact on life. Forgiveness can also be an important part of this step, although this should never be rushed. There are many feelings and emotions left behind during trauma, as well as intense emotional triggers and body symptoms.

For many, this entire process can take many years. For those with the readiness, there are quicker solutions. Each individual and each indiviudal trauma is different and must be approached as different and unique. The process of healing is not always linear. We can take one step forward and two steps back sometimes as we grapple to work with all the different elements.

The Somatic Experiencing® method is a body-oriented approach to the healing of trauma and other stress disorders. It is the life’s work of Dr. Peter A. Levine, resulting from his multidisciplinary study of stress physiology, psychology, ethology, biology, neuroscience, indigenous healing practices, and medical biophysics. The SE approach releases traumatic shock, which is key to transforming PTSD and the wounds of emotional and early developmental attachment trauma.

The SE approach offers a framework to uncover whether and where someone is ‘stuck’ in the fight, flight or freeze responses and provides clinical tools to resolve these fixated physiological states.

The SE approach facilitates the completion of self-protective motor responses and the release of thwarted survival energy bound up in the body, addressing the root cause of trauma symptoms. This is approached by gently guiding clients to develop increasing tolerance for difficult bodily sensations and suppressed emotions.

SE is a clinical methodology based upon an appreciation of why animals in the wild are not traumatised by routine threats to their lives, while humans, on the other hand, are readily overwhelmed and often subject to the traumatic symptoms of hyperarousal, shutdown and dysregulation. SE supports the completion of trauma.

Sacred Fire

A particular powerful approach to healing memories and trauma, especially if you believe in the power of the imagination and visualisation to heal. But it does go one step further than that, as it’s through an invocation that it is received. Calling upon this sacred Divine fire called the Violet Flame brings it into our consciousness, which can then be visualised in the inner eye and felt in the body as a transmutation, cleansing, purifying energy. It’s a very versatile tool, which can be invoked into memories, into emotions to release the old, past stories and supports forgiveness work. It does the work, so you don’t need to, the more you surrender to the Violet Flame, the more it can do the work

Healing Womb & Birth Trauma
Balancing Rhythms & Cycles

The different body rhythms and cycles that we have in the body are as follows:

Biological heart rhythm

Biorhythms

Circadian rhythm

Lunar and tidal rhythm

Menstrual rhythm

Seasonal rhythm

Meridian cycle

Cerebral spinal fluid Rhythm

Respiratory rhythm

Digestive rhythm

Lymphatic rhythm

The Doshas

Vaccines & Toxin Release

There are many different toxins that we absorb that can interfer with our path of awakening. Many of these toxins are energetic, such as electromagnetic effects from both inside our home and in our environment. Toxins can also come from food, allergies and sensitivities. The other issue is that we can receive toxins from poisons, pesticides, vaccines, drugs, heavy metals for example. We also have pathogens in the form of bacteria, fungi, mycoplasma and parasites and viruses, and we can release these with commandments.

Pathogens & Micro-organisms

We also have pathogens in the form of bacteria, fungi, mycoplasma and parasites and viruses, and we can release these with commandments.

Vision Correction & Balancing

The quality of our eyelight directly impacts our quality of life. If you have ever experienced an upshift of energy in your consciousness, you will notice clearer eyesight, more light in your vision.

The process of healing your eyesight is a threefold process. It’s important to work on many of the other issues on this list above – often limiting beliefs, fears, limited perceptions affect what we see with our eyes, as much as it would affect our ears and hearing. 

A big part of the process working on the visual maintenance – working with sunning and blackening out the eyes, our visual coordination, such as the moment of our eyes from our brain, instead of from our body. Just having an intention to be present can be enough to significantly change how we use our eyes. There are many other tools that can slowly improve our eyes – and disorders of the eyes – over time.

More recently I work with a tool called CSM, a powerful tool that brings in light into the pineal, thalmus and pitutory glands which in a few sessions increase the amount of light accessible for you to have better sight.

Vertebral Clearing & Balancing
Healing Neurological Responses & Behaviours
Healing The Doshas
Body Consciousness Realignment & Working With The Body Elemental

A powerful technique that works with the elemental beings that look after your body and it’s functions. These beings are aligned with keeping out the light until you have received this realignment. Once aligned with allowing the light in on the path of ascension, a lot changes in your life in profound ways. Over time this gives access to huge levels of light so this is lightbody work.

Balancing Left & Right Brains
Rebalancing Hydration
Weight, Food & Hunger Issues - Including All Eating Disorders
Bach & Bailey Flower Essences
Life Stresses Release
Nutrition, food allergies, sensitivites, tissue salts
Dental Clearing & Balancing
Hormones & Glands
Cranial, Hyoid & TMJ balancing
Youth Invigorating & Healing Ageing Programming
Primitive Relfexes

Psychotherapy Tools

Process Work

Process Oriented Psychology is one of the foundations of my work. When disturbances or issues such as emotional issues, body symptoms, relationship conflicts and social issues are unfolded with curiosity and respect, then our experiences can be understood from a different level, a soul level. The roots of Processwork are Jungian psychology, quantum physics, systems theory, communication theory, Taoism and shamanism. Within Processwork, the key building concept is that the solution to your problem is contained within the problem itself. This is a Divine Feminine approach to therapy. Essentially, one that doesn’t try to fix, extricate or irradicate the problem, but let it’s source give you the remedy. When a therapist works in this way, they are flowing with the nature of the soul and the deepest healing can arise from that place.

Psychosynthesis Psychotherapy

Psychosynthesis has its roots in Freud’s psychoanalysis. While a contemporary and student of Freud, Assagioli was more aligned with Jung’s approach to psychology.
Assagioli was influenced by Raja Yoga  who was interested in the cultivation of the mind, meditation and Karma Yoga (concerned with intention, action and will). He also drew on the writings of Alice Bailey, philosophy and theology, drawing on Buddhism and Jewish and Christian mysticism for his thinking.
Psychosynthesis is part of a wider movement of psychospiritual development, exploration and enquiry. It’s sometimes called a ‘transpersonal’ approach because it integrates the spiritual aspect of human experience.
Working in a psychospiritual way means meeting and including our challenges, pain and shadow, as well as our light and joy. Often many spiritually oriented people can avoid the shadow favouring light, psychosynthesis includes the full range of human experience.
Spiritual experience is an integral part of human experience. This entails understanding that we are both individually unique and part of a greater whole. Where we suffer we can lose contact with our spiritual centre (or vice versa it can be deepened), the psychosynthesis approach seeks to restore and renew spiritual connection.

When we can fluidly move within our inner world with ease and confidence, we are more in relationship with ourselves and others. Getting to know and learning how to follow our thoughts, feelings, sensations and stories is part of this journey. The world we live in pushes on us to buy into a certain culture. Buying in often results in us sacrificing our deepest, free nature.
We suppress, repress and marginalise aspects of our experience to fit in, or because if we experienced them it would be too much. We all have an identity that we tend to align with which feels like ‘us’. Of course if our identity is in conflict with where the deepest part wants to take us, we can get into trouble.
But we are not one unchanging, rigid identity (no matter what we like to think), we are actually made of many different elements, aspects, parts, sides, roles, figures – which in psychosynthesis is termed subpersonalities. Often these parts are working against one another, rather than cohesively together in unison. There is a struggle ensuing that plays out opposing impulses, desires, principles and aspirations. The psychosynthesis approach is to bring harmony and clarity into this struggle and confusion.

With understanding of ourselves, we discover that there are many aspects, roles and attitudes we identify ourselves with, to the point of marginalising or repressing other parts. When we identify as one aspect of ourselves, as though that’s who we are, we start to become imprisoned by that pattern. Getting to know our deepest nature which is our centre reconnects us with the freedom to be anything we choose. This freedom is supported by the use of right will. When we make choices in alignment with our highest and deepest nature, we come to discover the capacity to direct our will.

Psychosynthesis places a particular emphasis on coming into contact with experiences that support us to transcend the limits of reality and our perceived identity. These moments, sometimes rare, touch and move us in ways that ordinary reality does not. Most of the time we are cut off from these meaningful states of consciousness, we don’t know how to access them, or do not allow ourselves to be moved by them. Psychosynthesis is one psychotherapeutic approach that we use to help facilitate these higher states of consciousness and their integration into everyday life.

Psychosynthesis places particular importance on our relationships and our sense of belonging, community and unity. As we free ourselves from the constraints and conditioning of society and culture, our upbringing and our gender, race and every other limitation, our need for deep, authentic, loving, stable connections with others similarly rises as part of the healing process.
Both our need for true, authentic relationship and individual autonomy need to be equally met. Alongside this we also need to develop other skills, such as the ability to deepen our communication skills, experience empathy, an accurate perception of others, clear boundaries, a creative approach to interpersonal conflicts, and the capacity to create genuine relationships, free from manipulation, power games, expectations and fears.

At the heart of our universe is order – order comes out of chaos. Our psyche’s naturally create and organise order and harmony. It is inherent to our universe, even though from all appearances it might feel quite the opposite. When we come into synthesis, the various disharmonious elements within us stabilise and begin to coherently work together. This frees up our energy and contributes to our wellbeing. Core to psychosynthesis is the harmonious integration of all our component parts.

Primary & Secondary Process
Polarisation Work

Polarisation work, if abuse or trauma has taken place, is a core element of the healing process. With abuse or trauma part of our soul can get trapped in time.  With soul retrieval work big life changing traumas result to large parts of the soul splitting off.  I’ve worked with two clients who have had a soul fragment split off due to going to hold their mothers hand only to find its not their mother! When we have experienced trauma of some kind, we tend to polarise quicker than most other people. The abuser or power is ‘out there’ and we can see them everywhere, especially in anything that somehow makes us a victim. Pulling back our power, and often releasing the abuser is core work to clearing energetic boundaries and supporting the individual to feel empowered again and not at the mercy of a changeable reality.

While this is work on a psychotherapeutic level, this work can also be done energetically with various different techniques using sacred fire and geometry.

Parts Therapy & IFS
Physical Symptom Work
Role Play
Human Givens - Exploring Needs
Working with Projections, Dreaming Up & Transference
Dream Work
Healing The Inner Child & Other Energy Selves
Identifying Life Myth & Long Term Edges
Clearing Distorted Archetypes

The Energy Body – Subtle channels, Meridians & Chakras

Balancing Qi Energy in the Subtle Bodies
Clearing & Reconnecting The 22 Chakras
Balancing The Kundalini Chakras
Physical, Emotional, Mental & Spiritual Bodies
Qi Gong for Healing & Grounding - Dragon & Tiger (Medical Qigong)

Many people across the world practice Tai chi and Qi gong everyday because of its proven health and fitness benefits.  They work at a cellular level, unlocking deep trauma in your body slowly.  Realigning your spine and balancing out your left and right side – something fundamental to our healing and awakening.

Perhaps you’ve tried to learn yourself or you want to but know there are so many ways in you haven’t been sure which direction to take, especially since it can look quite traditional , complex and a long long journey before you can call yourself a Tai chi practitioner.  If you’ve tried Tai chi before you will remember how at first it feels so overwhelming remembering all the various moves and the transitions between them.

Tai chi and Qi gong are similar but different systems.  Tai chi is more complex and intricate – it takes time to learn the sequence of movements.  Qi gong is a simpler set of movements which clears your energy and meridian lines.  It is also the foundation of Tai chi. There are thousands of different forms of Qi gong.

With both art forms, we are working to bring in flow, balance and centring to our physical body and our physical movement.  We are encouraging a grace within the body, a grounding of our energy into our lower dantien (3 finger widths below the naval), and ultimately an opening of the heart, so it can be a bridge between the upper and lower chakras. As the saying goes “your legs become like mountains and your arms like clouds. Essentially, we are learning to connect heaven and earth, the masculine and feminine, within us. To unite heaven and earth.

Tai chi helps you gain a true appreciation of yin and yang, and the Taoist philosophy, that life is a process, ever flowing between these two moving states.  As we dance gracefully and perfect the moves, we are bringing into the body the universal principle of life always in a process of transition, even if it doesn’t appear that way. Life is just a series of many moments, even when we feel stuck and stagnant.

Tai chi and Qi gong will teach you how to deeply relax your body, invaluable when there is a lot of stress in your life, and with the lifestyles many of us have, stress is unavoidable unless we are working on bringing in the valuable yin energy, so missing in our western lives.  It does this through teaching you how to unwind all the tendons and muscles, freeing up your vital energy to flow to your organs, decluttering your mind. As you learn and move through the Tai chi form (and there are various different forms) you’re internally massaging the five vital organs which between them control all the functions of your body and mind. This means your joints become more supple and your muscles more resilient.

Tai Chi improves your cardiovascular, respiratory and lymphatic functions. The soft flowing movements gently benefit all your internal systems. With time, your balance and coordination improve and as you slowly detoxify and cleanse your body, you get less ill and stop getting the colds that everyone else around you pick up.  You become more immune and able to shake off illness and you’re better able to alleviate pain and illness quickly.

The outcome is rejuvenation of the mind and body, letting the spirit feel liberated and feeling more impervious to the stress and pressure of everyday life. You might have seen how Tai chi is popular with the older generation – perhaps this is because as we age a certain openness can enter into our lives. Tai chi is great for keeping us feeling and looking young.

Energising Spinal Gateways

Spinal gateways are access points for the entire nervous system which promote self-assessment and cues about the internal and external environment. The Spinal Gateway serves as a focal area of free energy located on or adjacent to spinal segments directly or indirectly attached to the dura mater (anatomical anchors for the spinal cord to the spinal bones and associated structures).

A Spinal Gateway possesses a sensitivity to natural biological energy fields and is an interface between the dimensions of energy, consciousness, and physical human tissue.

The spinal gateways respond to Divine commandments and when energised support the nervous system to move from a state of stress physiology and defensive posture and pain to a more adaptive growth promoting relaxed state.

Goddessence, The Sacred Fire & BEings OF Light

Goddess Initiations

I wish I could say that I was driven to attend my first Goddess Workshop through a desire to realise the ‘highest expression’ of myself. But in all honesty my expectations were far more modest – I would have been happy just freeing myself from the constant self-doubt and self-absorption.

So when the opportunity arose to experience my first Goddess Workshop and Goddess Initiations, it felt right to attend, but I had no idea why. Looking back, I was a bit like a babe in the woods. The meaning of the Divine Feminine was for me, like it is for many women, just an abstract concept. It was one that made sense, but I knew nothing of it beyond theory. My limited, separate ego mind was not able to envision beyond my self-absorbed, fearful world, and when you can’t see beyond your own lot, you are confined to it. This is many womens’ experience and the truth is you never really know the Goddess until She touches you.

Not only was I ignorant but I was also somewhat arrogant – I thought those new age books had taught me it all. I thought I had some grounding in spirituality. But until I felt the Goddess’unconditional love, I was like a ship without a rudder.

So, what was the eventual meeting like? It felt like waves of bliss rushing through my body, a state of unconditional love where no fear could exist. In minutes, I was transported from feeling in competition with the other female participants to a sister love. This state of being lasted the two days, my self-loathing was vanquished, and I was propelled into a much higher consciousness.

What I experienced those many years back is what I am now recreating with The Abundant Goddess Online Programme and Immersion. This model for transformation brings deeper, lasting and profound change. The promise of this workshop and online programme is that you will receive the tools that changed my life from one of aimlessness, abandonment and rejection to one of purposefulness, intimate connection and Divine love. It will prime you to receive and hold this higher Goddess frequency.

Of course this higher consciousness doesn’t enter your life without some degree of work for we need to clean house. But this work is fun and joyous, and most importantly, it will take you into beautiful, blissful and powerful feelings.

So what is this work? Through harnessing the powerful Divine Feminine energies, the transmuting sacred fire, and most importantly your own Source of Divinity within, your future Ascended Self is brought forth into your current life. We work with both the limiting and potential aspects of ourselves and all the dimensions in which we exist. After we have stirred and cleared the muddy waters of our unconscious history and past stories, our consciousness becomes like an empty vessel.

Finally, at the heart our programme is our celebratory four-day retreat. Here we make space for the Goddess to embody Herself through us with powerful Goddess Initiations, which in 20 minutes raise and deepen our consciousness to levels that 20 years of therapy wouldn’t touch. There is no space for patterns of self-loathing to reside alongside the Goddess. It sounds too good to be true, but it is so.

Now many moons on from my first brief encounter with the Goddess, (and at the risk of sounding all Deepak Chopra), life’s smaller details once wholly invisible to me now amaze me. I’m moved beyond words by the wind in the trees, by blossom and I feel the urge to share my awe at life with all. Within a few months of the Goddess Initiations, I met my partner and father of my son – I had struggled with relationships for many years.

I invite you to join us for our training consisting of webinars, videos and tools to support and challenge you to love and expand yourself.

Even though like me, oblivious those many years back, you too might feel unacquainted with the Goddess. Yet we will take you on a journey that will guide you to embody the highest version of yourself. Come on this path of exploration, to discover and be in union with your own deepest Goddess Self, which as a woman is your birth right to embrace in life.

Goddess Self

Goddess Self

The Isis Mysteries
Goddesses
Working with Limitations to Accessing the Divine
ETs
Threefold Heart Flame

Threefold Flame

Ascended Masters
Archangels & Angels
Divine Masculine & Divine Feminine

The Divine Masculine and Feminine are absolutely foundational in your healing process – the Sovereign Being website explores this process in full.

The Sacred Fire

The sacred fire is probably THE most powerful and versatile tool on this planet. There are actually 12 main sacred fires in total, but there are many others – like the Peach flame and the Frushia flame. But at the moment, for our purposes, it is best we just get to know the 3 main ones, which are the Violet Flame, the Rose Pink Flame and the Blue Flame. As with all the sacred fires, they hold a pure consciousness that when invoked and worked with, brings awareness and fresh understanding. They are not just tools for transmutation, they are tools for Divine understanding and fresh perspective from a more unified level of consciousness. On further note, we hold the gold, rose pink and blue flames, the holy trinity of the Father, Mother and Christ Consciousness (the holy trinity) within the centre of our heart and it sustains of our physical garment, giving us our life force and enabling us to be in a body.

Once the three main flames have been used for some time, it’s possible to then work with the White Fire, which brings a strong and sometimes quick acceleration for purification purposes – it is also known as the Ascension Flame for that reason.

Violet Flame

The Violet Flame is a combination of the Roses Pink Flame of the Divine Mother and the Sacred Blue Flame of the Divine Father. It is a forgiving flame that can be used to purify, transmute and release any negative emotion, belief system, or discordant energy that brings up fear or perceived limitation.

Blue Flame

The Blue Flame is the masculine aspect – the Divine Father. Its keeper is Archangel Michael. It is necessary to work with the Blue Flame if we are in need of strengthening our boundaries and protection so that the Divine Mother aspect within feels nurtured and safe. It’s feeling is very different to the Rose Pink Flame of the Divine Mother. It is a electric feel and you can see it as a blue lumincient flame. It is especially good for those with little access to the Divine Masculine energies and struggle to feel safe in this world.

White Fire

The purifying White Fire is also known as the Ascension Flame. It’s keeper is Serapis Bey. It is the White Light of the Mother, situated at the base of the spine. Through working extensively with the White Fire with a number of different practises, you can very quickly accelerate your path of healing. It is incredibly powerful. The White Fire can clear out deep old wounds from this life time and others (including ancestral) within a matter of minutes.

Rose Pink Flame

TheThe Rose Pink Flame is the sacred fire of the Divine Mother, the Divine Feminine. It is a soft, unconditionally loving vibration that brings peace, harmony and gentleness into our being. It is perfect for restoring balance in our hyper-yang world and reconnects us with the Divine Feminine, the missing part of our collective. The Blue Flame from the Divine Father, is a protective powerful flame. Experience and buy it here in resources

The Rose Pink Flame Of The Divine Mother meditation

Lightbody Potions

The sacred fire is probably THE most powerful and versatile tool on this planet. There are actually 12 main sacred fires in total, but there are many others – like the Peach flame and the Frushia flame. But at the moment, for our purposes, it is best we just get to know the 3 main ones, which are the Violet Flame, the Rose Pink Flame and the Blue Flame. As with all the sacred fires, they hold a pure consciousness that when invoked and worked with, brings awareness and fresh understanding. They are not just tools for transmutation, they are tools for Divine understanding and fresh perspective from a more unified level of consciousness. On further note, we hold the gold, rose pink and blue flames, the holy trinity of the Father, Mother and Christ Consciousness (the holy trinity) within the centre of our heart and it sustains of our physical garment, giving us our life force and enabling us to be in a body.

Once the three main flames have been used for some time, it’s possible to then work with the White Fire, which brings a strong and sometimes quick acceleration for purification purposes – it is also known as the Ascension Flame for that reason.

Elohim Gods

The Violet Flame is a combination of the Roses Pink Flame of the Divine Mother and the Sacred Blue Flame of the Divine Father. It is a forgiving flame that can be used to purify, transmute and release any negative emotion, belief system, or discordant energy that brings up fear or perceived limitation.

Quintessences

The Blue Flame is the masculine aspect – the Divine Father. Its keeper is Archangel Michael. It is necessary to work with the Blue Flame if we are in need of strengthening our boundaries and protection so that the Divine Mother aspect within feels nurtured and safe. It’s feeling is very different to the Rose Pink Flame of the Divine Mother. It is a electric feel and you can see it as a blue lumincient flame. It is especially good for those with little access to the Divine Masculine energies and struggle to feel safe in this world.

Soul Rays

The purifying White Fire is also known as the Ascension Flame. It’s keeper is Serapis Bey. It is the White Light of the Mother, situated at the base of the spine. Through working extensively with the White Fire with a number of different practises, you can very quickly accelerate your path of healing. It is incredibly powerful. The White Fire can clear out deep old wounds from this life time and others (including ancestral) within a matter of minutes.

Angelic Light Language

The Rose Pink Flame is the sacred fire of the Divine Mother, the Divine Feminine. It is a soft, unconditionally loving vibration that brings peace, harmony and gentleness into our being. It is perfect for restoring balance in our hyper-yang world and reconnects us with the Divine Feminine, the missing part of our collective. The Blue Flame from the Divine Father, is a protective powerful flame. It is great for protecting your au

Power Of Blessings

The Rose Pink Flame is the sacred fire of the Divine Mother, the Divine Feminine. It is a soft, unconditionally loving vibration that brings peace, harmony and gentleness into our being. It is perfect for restoring balance in our hyper-yang world and reconnects us with the Divine Feminine, the missing part of our collective. The Blue Flame from the Divine Father, is a protective powerful flame. It is great for protecting your au

LIGHTBODY work – Raising Frequency With Multidimensionality Work

Goddess Initiations

I wish I could say that I was driven to attend my first Goddess Workshop through a desire to realise the ‘highest expression’ of myself. But in all honesty my expectations were far more modest – I would have been happy just freeing myself from the constant self-doubt and self-absorption.

So when the opportunity arose to experience my first Goddess Workshop and Goddess Initiations, it felt right to attend, but I had no idea why. Looking back, I was a bit like a babe in the woods. The meaning of the Divine Feminine was for me, like it is for many women, just an abstract concept. It was one that made sense, but I knew nothing of it beyond theory. My limited, separate ego mind was not able to envision beyond my self-absorbed, fearful world, and when you can’t see beyond your own lot, you are confined to it. This is many womens’ experience and the truth is you never really know the Goddess until She touches you.

Not only was I ignorant but I was also somewhat arrogant – I thought those new age books had taught me it all. I thought I had some grounding in spirituality. But until I felt the Goddess’unconditional love, I was like a ship without a rudder.

So, what was the eventual meeting like? It felt like waves of bliss rushing through my body, a state of unconditional love where no fear could exist. In minutes, I was transported from feeling in competition with the other female participants to a sister love. This state of being lasted the two days, my self-loathing was vanquished, and I was propelled into a much higher consciousness.

What I experienced those many years back is what I am now recreating with The Abundant Goddess Online Programme and Immersion. This model for transformation brings deeper, lasting and profound change. The promise of this workshop and online programme is that you will receive the tools that changed my life from one of aimlessness, abandonment and rejection to one of purposefulness, intimate connection and Divine love. It will prime you to receive and hold this higher Goddess frequency.

Of course this higher consciousness doesn’t enter your life without some degree of work for we need to clean house. But this work is fun and joyous, and most importantly, it will take you into beautiful, blissful and powerful feelings.

So what is this work? Through harnessing the powerful Divine Feminine energies, the transmuting sacred fire, and most importantly your own Source of Divinity within, your future Ascended Self is brought forth into your current life. We work with both the limiting and potential aspects of ourselves and all the dimensions in which we exist. After we have stirred and cleared the muddy waters of our unconscious history and past stories, our consciousness becomes like an empty vessel.

Finally, at the heart our programme is our celebratory four-day retreat. Here we make space for the Goddess to embody Herself through us with powerful Goddess Initiations, which in 20 minutes raise and deepen our consciousness to levels that 20 years of therapy wouldn’t touch. There is no space for patterns of self-loathing to reside alongside the Goddess. It sounds too good to be true, but it is so.

Now many moons on from my first brief encounter with the Goddess, (and at the risk of sounding all Deepak Chopra), life’s smaller details once wholly invisible to me now amaze me. I’m moved beyond words by the wind in the trees, by blossom and I feel the urge to share my awe at life with all. Within a few months of the Goddess Initiations, I met my partner and father of my son – I had struggled with relationships for many years.

I invite you to join us for our training consisting of webinars, videos and tools to support and challenge you to love and expand yourself.

Even though like me, oblivious those many years back, you too might feel unacquainted with the Goddess. Yet we will take you on a journey that will guide you to embody the highest version of yourself. Come on this path of exploration, to discover and be in union with your own deepest Goddess Self, which as a woman is your birth right to embrace in life.

Mer-ka-vi,va,ba Work
Body Consciousness Realignment

We all have thousands of elemental, devic beings who look after all the organs and functions of the physical body. These beings are responsible for stepping down the energy brought in from higher realms of light into the physical. 

When we incarnated, we took certain contracts with these beings, and them with us, to hold in place certain programmes and patterns that prevent the light coming in. 

Essentially, this means is that their current role is to stop you in your path of awakening and ascension. So it’s important to restructure this relationship, breaking old contracts taken and bring in new ones that are conducive to your expansion.

This is a very powerful alignment that can create miraculous healings and bring in a calm and peace never felt before, on a more permanent basis.

A deep healing that brings profound transformation. Once your body consciousness and it’s keepers are on your side, they will let in more light and support you to grow your lightbody.

Nepillim Soul Removal
Earth Star & Soul Star
Crystal Skull Method
Clearing the Soul Vine - Deep Ancestral, Past Life Work

Working With Identity, Social & Collective issues

Sexual Identity, Orientation, Behaviour
Racism, Ageism, Diff-abilities
Activism & Engaging With World Issues
  • Here’s some of the following ways of working on relationships in sessions.
  • Communication skills – knowing how to listen without interpreting or interrupting 

  • Learning to use “I” messages 

  • The ability to name and bring up a conflict that you have directly 

  • The ability to give and receive feedback
  • Awareness of signals, double signals
  • The ability to pick up and unfold own double signals, especially body signals; helping other to notice theirs
  • The awareness of edges and double edges, includes ability to notice and 
 work with own edges and to notice other’s edges
  • Working with accusations and blaming – ability to find the 1%
  • The ability to work with third parties, past, future
  • Seeing how the process being discussed is happening in the moment 


Some of the very common problems that people in relationships face are:

  • Use of third parties, past, future
  • Noticing other’s double signals and not your own mistaking feedback– not seeing positive or negative feedback (due to own complexes)
  • Counter accusations and escalation
  • Assuming the other is identified with their secondary process. Often the 
thing that irritates you most in the other person, they need to do more but consciously
  • Supporting each others primary process, more likely with symmetrical 
 edges


Some ways of bringing resolution to conflict are:

  • The ability to know when you are on own side, other side, neutral
  • Fluidly moving between the various roles
  • Having some knowledge of escalation and de-escalation signals in self and other
  • Recognising how your own double signals leads you to be able to switch 
 roles internally and externally
  • Familiarity with the connection between rank and your role-taking abilities

Some of the most common problems that occur in relationships are:

  • Not being able to take other side–to just take own side is never enough.
  • Not being able to take own side
  • Lack of ability to metacommunicate
  • Not noticing escalation and de-escalation signals
  • Getting one sided
  • Being frozen, related to abuse issues

An important but often overlooked aspect of relationships is understanding about rank and having rank awareness, this is about:

  • Our ability to deal with areas of both higher and lower rank
  • The recognition of various types of rank: social, psych, spiritual, contextual
    The ability to recognise when unconscious rank is affecting the relationship
  • The ability to notice and unfold rank (double) signals in self and other
  • The ability to use your higher rank for the benefit of the whole

Common Problems within rank issues:

  • An over identification as victim when you have less rank, not seeing the power that you do have
  • Unconsciousness about higher rank: guilt, paralysis, trying to be good, being defensive, patronising
  • Unconscious revenge: one person feels put down and wants to get back 


Mood and Field Work

  • Awareness of high and low dreaming in self and other
  • Awareness of what happens to you when your high dreams aren’t fulfilled
  • Noticing and working with hopelessness
  • Noticing and working with co-dependence
  • Knowing when and how to focus on the relationship myth
  • Recognising when you are working on something for the larger 
 community/ world
  • The ability to notice and name atmospheres

Common problems:

  • Getting sunk in low mood with no periscope or meta-position
  • Being blinded by your high dream and not seeing signals
  • Marginalising others who don’t fit your high dream 


Inner Work necessary to work on your relationship issues:

  • Ability to drop out of contact and work on yourself internally; knowing when this is useful
  • Knowing that “the other is you”
  • Recognising and working with projection and dreamed up reactions
  • Being able to differentiate dreaming up from counter transference.
  • Getting into and out of affects
  • Knowing when you need to burn your own wood

Common problems:

  • Taking everything too personally, no sense of detachment
  • Not knowing when to drop out and work on yourself
  • Taking everything internally, blaming yourself

General metaskills needed in relationships

  • Spiritual warriorship: we are here to learn and grow
  • Caring for the relationship as a whole
  • Welcoming both troubles and love, saying yes to getting into stuff
  • Seeing, and recognising the inherent value of the other person: everyone has deep need to be seen
  • Appreciation of both people for being present and willing to work

Common problems:

  • Often missed or ignored: body signals, movement work
  • Being like a therapist, focusing too much on the other
  • Not knowing one’s own rank (especially when you feel hurt, angry, etc)
  • Not going far enough either into your own side or the other side
  • Not seeing the other as you
  • Not taking the initiative to clean up messes, waiting for the other to bring 
up the problem
  • Staying with the content of the fight or argument and not seeing it in the 
momentary signals, getting hypnotised by content 

  • Benchmarks for Working on Own Conflict Relationships
  • Use eldership to bring up a conflict, invite and create a space for discovery, and appreciate yourself and the other for going into the unknown
  • Bring in your issues, accusation, disturbance directly and in such a way that the other can respond
  • Pick up an accusation, find out where and how it is true for you
  • Take your own side without defensiveness, take the other person’s side and step out and find your neutrality or Big U, even in the middle of a conflict.
  • Notice and unfold double signals and secondary experiences and bring them in to your interactions, getting past the primary process content to discover the larger meaning of the conflict
  • Notice your own rank signals and make it useful in your interaction
Systems Theory
Gender Dynamics
Relationships
Clearing Religious Imprinting
Extreme States - psychosis & chronic illness

Working With Different Levels Of Reality

Consensus Reality

Consensus reality – where healing needs to be anchored. This is the pure content of your story, the form, shape, details and structure before we unfold or explore deeper into the issue.  It’s calling a spade a spade. This is the significant stuff in life, often it affects us deeply and polarises us and this is not something that can be negated or denied, these are the real circumstances.

Essence or Sentient Level

Sentient or the essence level – where the pure impulse behind all energetic qualities is found.  For example, lets say someone is experiencing a knot in their neck – that knot for that person will hold a specific energetic quality which can be explored and unfolded through body, sound and feeling. Unfolding the impulse behind that quality gives access to a deeper essence level of being -its energy before it is distorted in this third dimensional reality. This is where the higher beings of light work from – Christ consciousness, the Ascended Masters and the Goddes.

Dreaming Level

Dreaming level – where our collective unconscious, mythic archetypal reality.  There is the personal unconscious and the deep transpersonal collective unconscious where the archetypal motives and themes exist.  This is the world of dreamland, of our sleeping dreams, our fantasies, our subjective experiences, our emotions and our projections, our feelings.  This is our way into non-ordinary reality.

12 Dimensions

Dreaming level – where our collective unconscious, mythic archetypal reality.  There is the personal unconscious and the deep transpersonal collective unconscious where the archetypal motives and themes exist.  This is the world of dreamland, of our sleeping dreams, our fantasies, our subjective experiences, our emotions and our projections, our feelings.  This is our way into non-ordinary reality.